My cousin-sister is 20F and I am 20M, She had a boyfriend who went to study in a different country (TRP: LDR never work). He was totally head over heels for her and she loved him veryyyyy much (apparently).
I and her used to be pretty close, We don't talk quite often now, So, one day I receive a message from her on SC that she wants to talk about something.
She told me that she cheated because "I am very confused about my feelings and he is so far away", People of the red pill, I always knew AWALT, but it just broke my heart, Maybe, because she was my sister and I never expected this from her, She used to make these dairies and collages for him to show her "love". They were in a relationship since they were 14.
I told this to my best friend and he said: "I mean in a long-distance relationship there will be boring phases and in 6 years anyone will get bored. So, I get it, It must be boring for her".
Was my friend right? For saying "I get her" because I don't get it, I know LDR never work but I don't get his justification,
Fuck this shit, I am never going into an LTR in my fucking life, FUCK.THIS.SHIT. AWALT.
She is dating the guy in this country as well as the poor guy who studying abroad, she was like "I'll keep it a secret and date both of them. If I settle here, I will break up with him and If I go abroad I will break up with him".
I am so sad for the lad studying abroad who doesn't know what is going behind his back.

resesrrs 4y ago
Tell the bf bro.
aceflies 4y ago
I want to, I really want to but she told me “You are the only one I can share this stuff with, If I told my best friends they will literally kill me”. I want to tell him (she’ll know) but it’s also gonna ruin family relations and what not. I blocked her on SC...
Ketogainsmongoose 4y ago
Don't listen to this guy. Don't tell the boyfriend. You don't owe him anything and this isn't a hill you want to die on.
MigosXdd 4y ago
Fuck man, that’s a tough one. Six years is a lot and that poor soul is not going to handle it well. Let’s just hope the BF is also cheating so he won’t be that destroyed once he finds out.
mattyanon Admin 4y ago
The phrase is AWALT, not AWALTAFYS (.... apart from your sister).
No, she cheated.
Lesson learned I hope.
That's awful, because it's wasting the life of at least one of them.
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WahmenLover 4y ago
What is a "cousin-sister"? Are you from Brasil or West Virginia?
mediagator 4y ago
Guessing he's Asian or something. It's basically a female cousin but are called Cousin sisters and men are Cousin brothers.
jeepwrangler 4y ago
SWEET HOME ALABAMA
kingofthecastle 4y ago
She's 20, even a 30 year old wouldn't bother to try to maintain a LDR regardless if she says she loves him a million times over.
She's monkey branching to the next guy available to satisfy her needs. If the guy is going to be gone for a long time and you can't convince him to drop your sister then leave this situation up to them to decide.