So, I met up a couple times with a girl that is new to the city and only staying for this semester. I was showing her the city and explaining things, since thats part of the program I am in and didn´t really try to make any moves. After the third meeting we went to my place, cooked, danced, played guitar and I tried to kiss her. She rejected the kiss by tugging onto me while dancing and tilting her head away from me and against my chest.
Anyway, I was going on with my life after that, since I took this as a definite rejection and moved on, deleted her number and did not text. In the course of a couple weeks and from time to time again she texted me, asking me to hang out and I told her, that I wont see her unless its a date. Since she is awkward af and Its exhausting to keep up with that. Well yesterday she texted me, asking me if we could spend some time together again. I answered "for a date?" and this is what she texted me: https://imgur.com/a/7wiejgJ
First of all: I read those messages as a no. She likes the validation from me (who does not) and wants to keep me in the friend zone. But why would she be so eager to meet me? Does she love my validation so much?
Looks wise, we kind of match I guess. I would rate me an 8, she is an 8 as well.
I realise I am over-invested, and a little under-fucked. Part of me wants to meet her again and just try things out because she is gone in 1 month anyway. Another part of me wants to tell her to fuck off and not reply.
What the heck is this text anyway, she changes her mind with every sentence.

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DS_1900 5y ago
“She changes her mind every sentence.”
Don’t look to women to lead you to an answer. Lead them to where you want to be (with them).
Anyway she sounds awkward, I would spin more (other) plates. She had her chance to hook up with you and she blew it (notice how if you spin it this way you are the one offering the hookup as something that she only gets a short chance at)
EloSaviour 5y ago
Thank you for your answer. Seeing it this way is hard, since I am still in the phase of evaluating my value in this world, really. Letting go and accepting this rejection is hard, man.
DS_1900 5y ago
Keep at it bud.
TheStumblingWolf 5y ago
The way I read her message she saw you as a friend so the kiss attempt surprised the hell out of her. She says she's willing to spend time with you again to see if something else could develop (orbiter bait), but that seems suspect to me. If she's interested she's interested.
EloSaviour 5y ago
Yeah, I think you are right.
TheStumblingWolf 5y ago
Depending on your goals in life, you could see it as an opportunity. I've learned a lot from having female friends, and maybe she has friends. Sometimes knowing one person, can lead to meeting another who in turn also has a network.
EloSaviour 5y ago
She is gone in a month, so there is no real value in this friendship. Also, as I said, she is kind of awkward so I have no intention to keep up with that.
[deleted] 5y ago
Female friends are a great way to hear the red pill straight from women
Blackhawk2479 5y ago
You’re friendzoned - you took your shot and she knocked you back. Next time escalate quicker and make your intentions clear from the off.
Onto the next buddy.
AlphaBetaSigmaDelta 5y ago
Next her
Gemkingnike 5y ago
Maybe she just wants to be friends?
It doesn't look like she's into you.
EloSaviour 5y ago
Yeah, thats not happening. Lmao.
TheRedApostle 5y ago
Orbiter bait.
Giving you just enough rope to hang yourself from.
Saying 'no' AMD saying 'if something develops'.
OP, how you reject her determines whether she gets tingles or remains awkward.
Just say, 'Nah, I'm good. Have fun!' and forget about her. Don't unfollow from any social media platforms because that would imply you gave her serious thought(like making this post), but DO NOT let the rejection become a conversation.
beachbbqlover 5y ago
She likes you and is confused about it.
tft646 5y ago
I see some comments here saying that it sounds like she's not interested in going further -- I don't think it's clear one way or the other. She knows your intentions and even acknowledged them in those texts and implied that she's "reconsidered". I would give her one last shot. If the fuckening doesn't commence, next her.
EloSaviour 5y ago
Yes, Its like every single message says the opposite thing.
tft646 5y ago
She might just be confused or bad at displaying affection. I mean the way I look at it... If she's really an 8, then she would have no problem finding other dudes or friends, yet she keeps hitting you up. That's why I would personally give her one last chance.
She knows what you want and I assume she's gotten the hint that you're not fucking around about it because you've already basically soft nexted her once
Super_Ad_1226 5y ago
From what she’s saying I think her English isn’t the best but sounds like it could be her saying to try and kiss you? Maybe I read it wrong
EloSaviour 5y ago
Yes, this text could mean everything and nothing. I have no idea how to answer that.
Spirited-Foot 5y ago
“Ok”
ReeeeDrumpf 5y ago
She cherishes and values your friendship and wants to continue doing platonic friend activities.
Blackhawk2479 5y ago
That’s what other girls are for.