I’ll message a girl, she says hey, I ask what they’re on tinder for. She says whatever she says and usually asks me back, I’ll reply “kinky sex & cuddles” (try it it works) and sometimes I get a response like “how kinky?”.
I tell them I’ll have to show them & then tell her to send her number.
Do you guys think that’s the best way to go about it? Could I use that as an opportunity to turn them on and then get the number?
What do you think?

WHATTHEDECKK 5y ago
I mean honestly who wants to have a conversation over text? Girls get over +100 matches, by the time you send the 5th message it’s either one of these 4 things: left on delivered, dry replies or “sorry I fell asleep” and “I’m just now seeing this”.
These women want to get dig out by the chads that match with her, get free validation & attention from the guys who weren’t on her radar.
We can’t do much through text until after you meet.
And if you are on her radar shes gonna wanna fuck
alphabachelor 5y ago
Back during my Bumble days, my bio would say "I can eat a peach for hours".
Often, the girl's opener would be the peach emoji.
I would always reply with "Not so fast, missy. Let's get some drinks first.". Almost always number closed.
Legal-Newspaper1077 5y ago
I wouldnt ask what they’re on tinder for because I know what they’re on tinder for. I’d use a different opener, but all that matters with online dating is results so if you’re getting those keep to it.
NotKoreanSpy 5y ago
You’re right, it’s working for me though. I only ask because it baits them into asking me back so I can reply with “kinky sex & cuddles”
AuberyBitoni 5y ago
Back when I had Tinder my bio was "Not boyfriend material" - Ex girlfriend
Many girls replied this:
Her: How come you're not boyfriend material?
Me: Might tell you over a drink.
Her: Hahah sure, when?
Me: Give me your number. I'll let you know when I'm free.
Her: Sure 0123456789
That's it.
WHATTHEDECKK 5y ago
Basically use some type of open/pull and possible deniability to get in her guts vs the old boring “ hey, hi, what’s your #?”
lwkekdmemnejskskfkdn 5y ago
Any insight as to why this worked?
MusicgoonV2 5y ago
It's not particularly clever, but it's right down to business and flirty. I approve.
NotKoreanSpy 5y ago
I figure why waste time making up a clever line for a tinder girl who has a billion matches a day
MusicgoonV2 5y ago
I agree. Go with what works.
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Ethman2k9 5y ago
I mean... is it working?
NotKoreanSpy 5y ago
Yes
StuDentMyCar 5y ago
eh, sounds creepy to me. go ahead, downvote me. Offering perspective
dragoono 5y ago
Verrrry cringe. I’m not surprised about your luck with an opener like that. Unless you’re 10/10 or the girl has no creep radar you can’t really get away with that. It’s just so weird the way you phrased it. If someone said that to me in person I would honestly gag a little.