Hey guys, title says it all.
In the development of a stronger frame, there's the solidification of a stronger sense of self—ultimately cloaking yourself in that inner strength becomes the basis of frame. However, at times I find my frame shaped and influenced by the people around me. Whether it's more masculine/mature men, or at times even strong-willed women.
I want to work on this and work to become stronger in mind and character when met with people who come across as more centered. But I don't know how.
For the RP brothers out there with strong internal frames, that not only KNOW who they are but are comfortable with it, how did you get there?
At times I find myself swayed to either "be more" like the people around me, or at times feel less interesting/lower value than them. This feeling comes and goes in exchange for strong-willed confidence, but I'd like to develop a more consistent inner strength.
Appreciate any thoughts or advice.
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NexusReflexX 5y ago
"Atomic Habits" - James Clear
Models - mark manson
Power the now - eckhart tolle
As a man, your sense of self is correlated to the amount of work you put in, whether its exercise, career, a sport or other hobby
Tousen71 5y ago
Appreciate you brother
atk352 5y ago
Models is Garbage. Very bluepilled ideology
dragoono 5y ago
A nice, decent mushroom trip solves this for me. I won’t have self-image issues/depression for up to a solid month after a good trip. Maybe think about it?
Tousen71 5y ago
Oh, I love mushrooms. You're right, it focuses a lot of mental energy initially on the self until all those mental knots are teased out. I need a connect to be frank. That's good suggestion.
dragoono 5y ago
I also felt that xanax ridded me of conversation anxiety. I never overthought my responses to people while I was on it, I just rolled with it. I felt what I assume neurotypical people feel like every day. It was such a breath of fresh air.
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