Hi all, I'm a lurker here.
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Basically i broke up with my LTR on holidays yesterday and i left her on vacation and went to our rented place in our city. There were no fights or screaming tho she is probably hurt much more than I am.
She will be comming with her father in upcoming days to move her stuff from our rented place (I will stay living here).
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My autistic question is: While they are moving stuff out of my place should i go somewhere else like on a coffe, gym or should i stay at home playing games and monitor them just in case.
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P.S. She is blocked on everything except WhatsApp until she moves her stuff out of my place.
Atomz00 4y ago
Stay there and have a witness.
Hell, have two. do you know a couple who can handle awkward?
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Batman-von-Pepe 4y ago
Can't tell you what to do while they are moving stuff out but I like to be present when there is a stranger in my house. Whatever you decide, do change the locks when it's done.
BajaGhia 4y ago
Pack up her shit and get it out.
Take pictures and document all of it on a spreadsheet. Make a copy for her. Have her sign your copy stating that she has received it, or send it via email and make sure she replies.
Be cordial but firm during the pick up/drop off.
Rearrange the furniture and kitchen, if she comes inside she'll see you are already moving on.
gbizzle2 4y ago
Can you pack everything up and put it in the garage? Then just leave the garage door open while you chill inside. Or if in an apartment put it on the back of your truck bed if you have one
Super_Ad_1226 4y ago
If you trust them still then do something else, otherwise I’d stay and do what you suggested. I doubt she would do anything vindictive like destroy your property when her dad is there. But she may take something valuable to you or that you haven’t agreed about splitting/ who gets to take.
T-C96 4y ago
Jesus Christ what are these responses. Ask her when they’re going to be handling it and if there’s anything she needs from you/anything that needs to be split/divided up. Then just put your valuables away somewhere safe and find something to do for an afternoon.
If you really think she’s an evil vindictive bitch who’s going to steal all your shit - hang around and supervise. You can suck it up for a few hours to never have to deal with it again
ThinSpiritual 4y ago
Go somewhere else for the peace of mind. Mainly because:
1) You want to avoid the possibility of any argument or drama, or conversations that lead to them.
2) There's no need to monitor them? Do you really think her dad is coming to help her steal things from you?