Was out with my gf this Saturday evening. We were in my car ready to go back home when this random guy on the street says "tf is your problem" to my gf just because she was singing in the car. We initially ignore him but he keeps asking "tf is your problem" and eventually approaches our car. I tell him to fuck off and this guy calls me names and tells me to get off the car. As soon as I do he calls his buddies and I see 4 other guys in another car just getting off (I saw them talking minutes before, so I knew they were friends) I laugh and say "what a coward calling for your buddies help", get in my car and drive away with my gf.
Now I'm 5'6" jacked and pretty strong for my size but never been in a fight. Still the thought of this skinnyfat guy being disrespectful to me and my gf drives me nuts and I actually feel like a bitch because I didn't punch him in the face. I was so mad that I left my gf at home and actually went back to find this guy, found him but still with his friends so decided to go back home.
I've never been in a situation like this before so I really don't know whats the best thing I should've done.
What do you guys think?

forgotten_orc 5y ago
I blame movies for making people believe every guy must be some sort of superhero. With four guys you stand no chance. If you're in America for these situations carry a gun.
Batman-von-Pepe 5y ago
Swallow your ego or swallow your teeth. Next time don't even escalate the situation just drive away unphased.
Keep doing what you're doing and one day you'll probably wake up in the hospital, not worth it.
319Skew 5y ago
Don't care how tough you are. Real life isn't the movies. Four guys coming at you can result in your ass being beaten to a pulp and your life ruined.
You can train and it improves your odds but you don't know if one guy has a knife, a bottle, is high, or has a gun.
One wrong move and could be in a wheelchair or partially blind in one eye from having a boot to the face.
Keep the fights you have to those you can win or have no other option.
vandaalen 5y ago
are you really too dumb to come up with the possible consequnces of being beat to death by four guys, just because they wanted a dick waving contest, and weigh them against just walking the fuck away?
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TeddyMGTOW 5y ago
Harmless situation. Just move on.
BajaGhia 5y ago
You aren't going to win a fight against 4 or 5. No matter what the movies say.
endeavox 5y ago
i came from a country when someone trying to mock you , you don't have choice just to physically fight even they out numbered you or else they will do it again and again when they saw around cuz you're a coward. And you're ego will haunt you if you don't fight. So i fight alot at my teens and 20s some win some lose.
But then when I'm having a good life and live to other country You'll realize TRP community is right, those thug trying to mock you is not worth the trouble you'll end up badly or end up in a hospital worst case scenario your woman will see you as weak if they beat you cuz woman would not care how many your enemy they only care is how you'll win against this thug they only see is the winner even tho you just do it for her.
i-am-the-prize 5y ago
you shouldn't have gotten out of the car - if the friends were closer/behind you, it would've been over.
just ignore, stay alert, make a joke to keep her calm, but stay in your car.
in my state, we're armed when we drive and I conceal carry. So i definitely will not get out and 'pursue' as my act self defense becomes murder when i instigate and create a situation vs. de-esclation.
next time roll up the windows and stay in the car. your car is itself a lethal weapon, safest inside.
sauceyzaddy 5y ago
Bro the best thing for you to do was to sit in your car and leave. Even if he cursed you out, you could’ve said “That’s not how you ask for my girl’s number”. Lmao I would’ve shat myself if I was a rando hearing that.
rp_redneck 5y ago
Good job dumbass. You could have easily ended up getting your brains split across the pavement because your little fee fees were hurt.
Quit giving a shit what other people think, and you won't have this problem.
eugenechien 5y ago
Yea I wouldn’t fight him unless it was 1v1 but even so some of these idiots carry knives so you did the right thing
[deleted] 5y ago
This is why you need to get your hands on an M-28 or M-29 recoilless smoothbore gun and some M388 rounds.
Nektaris 5y ago
Thank you guys for your wise words. It's my ego that took a hit. But this motivated me to hire a mma coach. And if my gfs attitude starts to change because of this, I guess I'll dump her.