Hey people,

Lately I was thinking of getting the grip of my social skills more, need to find some time and resources to get that all together. Here's what I meant - if you've followed eurovision this year, Italian contenders has won and the main guy became an object of discussions lately as - insanely charismatic and confident dude. So I started to watch videos where he's in trying to see what all these people were saying about him. Comparing him and I(probably not good idea to ever compare yourself to someone especially if you're not so well in life, and ESPECIALLY comparing yourself to famous people) and only what I got out of it is how I'm so inconsistent with my moods, feelings, vibe, the way I'm projecting myself to others. Then I figured out what I got that made me like that - moodiness, probably 'depression', not being all smiley or talkative, not being confident and self-assured, and also zero charismatic.

I would like to work on these stuff and I know already it's something I'm trying and working on for many many years, now I became interested in part of being charismatic. It seems you can't shoot for that like a sniper, it's umbrella term that many characteristics comes underneath.

What do you think? Is there a way to be charming/charismatic person while also battling many shit?