A girl i've been talking to on instagram wants to meet me she mentioned this atleast 4-5 times , we've been flirting a bit in the texts but i have 0 idea what to do when you go to meet a girl. I am a virgin , never been out with a girl. I seriously dont know what the f**k will we do once we meet.
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musteatyourgreens 4y ago
A woman wants to be lead by a strong, decisive man. You LEAD the date. Don't be indecisive during the date.
In the back of your head, you already know WHERE you're going and WHAT you're going to do.
When she asks "So where are we going?". Remember the 4-letter word: LEAD. "Let's grab some coffee. I know a good place 10 minutes from here. Let's go."
For a first date, just take her to a place to grab some coffee. Pay for her coffee (splitting the bill for a coffee just makes it complicated, and makes you look cheap) and take her for a walk.
During the walk, you just exchange conversations. Just keep it relaxed and find out more about her, while keeping a masculine frame. Usually, women do most of the talking. Women like to talk. A lot.
During the conversations, remember to maintain a male-female polarity to create sexual tension. Many men fuck it up and don't create polarity (like friends, men-men). No polarity, no attraction.
Just stay relaxed, you're the man.
youngv420 4y ago
Thanks alot bro
Dopaminedetoxing 4y ago
Tips to make them talk tons? This plate is not opening up as much, aks me more than i ask her
whhoa 4y ago
Read how to win friends and influence people. It will answer this question, and the other questions you haven't asked yet, but should. Takes 4 hours tops to read, and its free on google.
Dopaminedetoxing 4y ago
Will do thanks
ajajaj99 4y ago
Also a good audio version online. 2x speed
Glitch5450 4y ago
Ask them questions about themselves and their lives. Everyone’s favorite topic is themselves
Dopaminedetoxing 4y ago
Thanks. And my bad for the autism but examples?
Glitch5450 4y ago
Remember FORD:
Family Occupation (school for your case) Recreation Dreams
Dopaminedetoxing 4y ago
Thanks! And recreation?
Glitch5450 4y ago
What you do for fun
What’s your favorite show to watch What’s your favorite vacation destination What sports did you play growing up
Dopaminedetoxing 4y ago
I see thnks
TheRedPillRipper 4y ago
Before you meet have your LOGISTICS locked in. That makes everything else easier.
A.B.C. Your goal’s to bang. Re-read The Side Bar and work out your game plan. Then execute.
Godspeed and good luck!
Dopaminedetoxing 4y ago
Logistics meaning place, time, plan etc?
I_Dont_Type 4y ago
Yes
MattyAnon Admin 4y ago
You need to realise this is not the last girl you'll date, it doesn't matter that much.
It's a learning process, and there will be more.
What you do: meet up with her. "Hey girl... Saturday... X place". Expect to lead, don't expect her to make decisions. Expect that it will all be down to you to physically escalate.
Get out there, fuck it up, enjoy, learn.
Jamahamakaze 4y ago
This! Might not be a popular opinion but as a virgin, you probably don’t wanna overwhelm yourself with outcome dependence. You’ve more to gain from the actual experience of spending time with a woman than learning how to fuck based off some instruction you read off the internet. Just enjoy the day, a few more dates and it’ll feel more natural and it’ll all happen in good time. If I were in your shoes (a virgin) if only set the bar as high as going on the actual date
youngv420 4y ago
One of the Best advices ive seen
MattyAnon Admin 4y ago
The hard part is persuading our scarcity-conditioned monkey-brains to act on it.
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anonyree 4y ago
Just go meet her. Make sure you are clean, wash your dick properly, have fun. She likes you alot already.
Even if it fizzles, only way to learn is to have experience
willwang2020 4y ago
How old are you
youngv420 4y ago
21
willwang2020 4y ago
You need more experience in ur 20s and don’t be serious lol