Met a chick for the first time Wednesday night. She came over and sucked me off within the first 30 minutes. Clearly a hoe. I give it a B- BJ. However today she mentioned how she has a date tomorrow and wants me to fuck her the next time we see each other.
I basically said I don’t share and she can come over right now to fuck before her date because after that I’m good. She replied with lol and then pretty sure she blocked me because my reply doesn’t say delivered.
Clearly she’s drama and not worth it. Bullet dodged. But, any better ways to handle a chick who acknowledges you just want to fuck but throws dating other guys on the side to find someone to settle down with other than nexting?
berttbeans996 5y ago
You showed neediness and insecurity like a mf and it turned her off.
stripedtanker 5y ago
yeah op is like super autist. like wtf. just keep it casual
IHaveSalesQuestions 5y ago
Questionable. On the surface, sure.
berttbeans996 5y ago
You showed possessiveness, controlling tendencies, entitledness.
Like other commenter stated, she was probably looking for a FWB and she was offering that to you. You showed the above qualities and she realized she doesn’t want that with you.
Unless you saw her as LTR material, ignore and keep fucking her.
T00kTheRedPill 5y ago
She was just looking for a FWB and considering you just met her, that was pretty entitled of you to think she should immediately drop all of her other dudes just for you to fuck her.
She “lol’ed” at you because she was probably thinking “I’m offering this dude my snatch for free and he wants me to act exclusive already? Fuck that. I’ll call a Chad that WILL give me NSA sex.”
Yeah, if you were looking for an easy lay and / or a FWB, you fucked up. Nevertheless, there are many more out there so don’t worry too much over it.
Learn from it and move on. Take care!
IHaveSalesQuestions 5y ago
Thank you. I’ll own it. You’re right. Very entitled. She wasn’t exactly the brightest so if I could get her to fuck me only on the regular (or at least try hard enough to convince me of it) that would work. I have other options to exercise though. I next fast.
You’re right. There are many more and I will learn from it. You take care as well!
T00kTheRedPill 5y ago
Just make sure you wrap up tightly, especially with girls this slutty, then immediately wash up afterwards and make sure you either flush the condom or take it with you. Also, don’t go down on them and before you kiss (if you decide to), make sure she doesn’t have sores around her mouth.
Be safe man.
IHaveSalesQuestions 5y ago
I gave her a good look over. I’m not sure she was as slutty as it seems. I think she fucks though. There was some teeth in the bj. The real sluts suck much better dick at least in my experience. She also swore she only slept with 10 people ( -_- ).
Good call outs though. Appreciate it.
no_not_this 5y ago
Be careful what you read on here.. how many times you read a guy spinning 4 plates and they’re only fucking him…. Ya sure. That is not the norm in real life.
IHaveSalesQuestions 5y ago
Lol I think that’s also very true.
Current-Ticket4214 5y ago
You don’t THINK you share, but you definitely share.
That was a massive shit test and you failed miserably. You turned her off and she wants nothing to do with you now.
Next time you should let her know that you’re in the same position she’s in. Has a date tomorrow, but still wants to fuck. Get this fantasy that women are pure and clean out of your head. Every woman is getting railed in half by someone, single or not. And most are letting at least two dudes split them in half.
Better luck next time.
IHaveSalesQuestions 5y ago
Lol funny. Good points and perspective.
How I saw it was I just don’t have time to deal with this nonsense this fucking early. Like literally don’t have time. I have too much going on to listen to someone tell me about them dating other guys while I’m texting her that I want to fuck her. We hung out one time. All she harped on is how her last ex lied to her and had a GF and was fucking other people. Now she wants a serious relationship and I can’t give that to her. She’s right. I told her I just wanted to fuck around. Hence the bj 30 minutes in. But I also don’t want to listen to her whining about how I don’t want a serious relationship and make subtle attempts to manipulate me into one. I know the game.
It seems like a bad precedent to start this off. I figured I’d just squash it all by being upfront. I’d rather be lied to about it than constantly hear about her going on dates.
So by saying that “I’m in the same boat and have a date too” and essentially being okay with it you’re saying you’re essentially nipping it in the bud early and it’s not something that will be a recurring theme? I saw it as this is going to keep coming up. So I’ll lay it out. Take it or leave it. She left it. Next.
Current-Ticket4214 5y ago
You didn’t say that she complained about her ex or that you told her you only wanted to fool around.
She gave you a bj in exchange for a relationship. You told her you only wanted to play. Then you refused to share her which is very possessive and relationship like.
She played you like a fiddle. She knew you’d tell her you don’t share. She was laughing in your face because you said you don’t want a relationship, but that you wouldn’t share her. And she did it to prove to you that you’re only one of her options. She made the power moves here my guy.
IHaveSalesQuestions 5y ago
Okay some of that is fair. I think you’re making a mistake about my feelings over this though. I’m okay with her “playing me like a fiddle”. I came down her throat within 30 minutes of meeting her. I’m the victor unless you think I should have oneitis. I got my dick sucked. She wanted to get fucked and I said no. I wanted a bj. I’m good. On to the next then.
There’s a common perception here that slipping up is the end of the world and we all need to freak the Fuck out and act like the world is ending because someone fucked up with a chick so we come in and act as hard as possible like we are infallible and tell OP how stupid they are. That’s hardly an abundance mindset.
The fact is I’ll learn from this, others who come here will too and be smarter about things with the next one. I’m not even sure I wouldn’t say it again to someone. I’m certain there’s women out there who will be okay with only fucking me while I fuck others if I get my value right.
Lastly, I’m genuinely okay with this outcome as well because I practice what trp teaches. Options. I have them. I was just looking for some more insight. For clarity, I wasn’t operating under the delusion that I was her only option. I wanted to test her to see if she would go along with it. She didn’t. I was already moving on. Her value to me was someone to Fuck if she only fucked me. Anything short of that and she’s not worth it.
Clearly, everyone here seems to think it’s naive and no woman will do it. So…next. I’ll report back if I find one. I’m not fucking one of you nasty fuckers sloppy seconds though. :)
Efficient_Film_149 5y ago
Anyone reading this please do not replicate anything OP has done. He states this girl is a whore, yet when she admits to being a whore he gets hurt and cries. Do not be like op. If she says she wants you to fuck her after her date. You fuck her guts out.
This whole I don’t share concept is hilarious. Shows you have no real life experience is you think any girl out there is exclusive.
I was in this same exact position. Girl fucked a kid I knew earlier in the day. Came over later i dogged her. Life goes on. Not my girl, idc if she gets a train ran on her. If it’s my turn to dick it I’m in
YeetYourBroke 5y ago
Yeah also OP acts like she was going to fuck 100% on that date. I know girls that go on dates with simps eat fucking wagyu and shopping at Victoria secret just to come over and fuck with that lingerie the simp bought her and eat ramen noodles lmao. The whole story sounds fake but Ill give him the benefit of the doubt
IHaveSalesQuestions 5y ago
Cool story. Did you suck the cum out of her pussy from the previous guy too? You sound like you might be into that.
Efficient_Film_149 5y ago
I did. It was a bonus.
IHaveSalesQuestions 5y ago
Figured. ;)
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T-toborn 5y ago
U were gonna do what she wanted anyway so why didn't u say something a long the lines of "cool, hit me up when you're free"
OptimisticalRanger 5y ago
What she does shouldn't be your concern. You're fucking other women as well remember? You attract what you are.
IHaveSalesQuestions 5y ago
100%. I got greedy too and told her I’d be. It is what it is now.
YeetYourBroke 5y ago
Your autistic..
Like you said shes a slut, sluts fuck other dudes if you dont want a girl fucking other dudes get into a LTR your living in a fairy tale bro
Interesting-Edge-711 5y ago
Dummy she'll still fuck other dudes even if in an LTR....You don't want her fucking other dudes? Then be the best fucking option she could ever have, and even then that might not be enough because hoes are going to be hoes...let the adults provide the advice little man.
IHaveSalesQuestions 5y ago
True story. I’ve owned it.