Lol. He’s one more ‘ruined nut’ away from a sexual assault charge.

It’s really dumb to act that way when it can be handled better. A woman who is upset and angry after sex… if she’s crazy enough she can press charges after the fact. It’s called regret rape.

So your home boy is a liability because he thinks he’s a cool tough guy.

It would probably be better for him to find his own girl, and you to find your own. I would avoid a 2 set with him for a while.

Your roommate needs an attitude adjustment imho

l, found out she on her period, got mad and basically tried to kick her out of our apt while I am with her friend. To make it worse he actually ended up leaving the girl alone in his room and leaves to go to a party/find another girl.

Your roommate is fucked up.

He said later in the group chat that he was mad because she “ruined his nut” so I guess he feels like she wasted his time by not telling him she was on her period earlier in the night.

your roommate is spoiled beyond belief.

Things happen with people, we all know women are like this, when you meet new people then random shit like this will happen all the time and as a man you need to roll with this and accept it and deal with it.

Note: I am not saying "tolerate shitty female behaviour"... obviously girls not telling you things like this isn't right and you shouldn't continue to see any girl who dicks you around.

Am I wrong for thinking this is extremely fucked up and selfish thing to do?

No, you're right.

And sadly your roommate is a danger to you. Girls will react very badly to being thrown out like this, there's the danger codeword thing, and some girls will later concoct this into a rape story. It probably won't work, but will cause you a LOT of pain.

Let me know your thoughts.

If your friend is "yeah, that was fucked up, sorry to ruin your night bro", he might learn.

If he sticks to his guns with eg "stupid bitch should have told me", he won't learn and sadly you can't pick up girls with him any more. If he keeps treating girls like this, it's only a matter of time before the police get involved and although your friend did nothing illegal they will NOT be sympathetic. Dramatic girls + jealous white knight cops = fucking up your life.

Yeah that's messed up. I'd have done the same as you.

I had a similar situation before where after gaming the girl and going through the trouble of bringing her home, she says she's on her period.

I actually found it fucking hilarious and told her she should've told me earlier on. She said she didn't expect things to escalate so quickly xD and she didn't want to let me go so, she ended up giving me a head, we spent the night together and bid her farewell the next day. We met and smashed a couple times after that until she broke.

But your roommate is being weird af. Just talk to him, tell him to keep it cordial if not professional with girls he brings home. After all, they're not just hookers he pays to fuck, but girls he vibed with and found sexually arousing enough to grant her his semen and time. And above all, they're your guests, is that how they treat their guests where he's from? The fuck?

He has some issues. Not sure what. I'm guessing he felt jealous you're having sex and he's having a blowjob (which really is not that bad at all, I'd have been content).

ur mate is a dumbfuck lmfaooo

bro i fuck my girl on her period with 0 fucks given it's not a big deal lol. just don't take him out w you anymore.

Yeah he shoulda handled that better especially since she did top him off so it’s not like he didn’t get anything.. I would talk to him about the potential repercussions something like this could cause (specifically a rape charge).

So blonde girl ends up in tears and is like why is your friend such a dick etc etc.

Initiate operation bloody sandwich.

Why do you need a group chat to chat with your friend? Why don't you just text each other? That, to me, is the most fucked up thing in this situation.

This is not a you problem. You do not have to get involved. There is no "win condition" for you if you do get involved.

Stay out, do not form an opinion.

On the down low, start looking for somewhere else to live. Drama has a splash zone.

Interesting..

Your buddy sounds desperate.

He’s an idiot.

Your roommate needs to get his ass whooped. What an absolute mongoloid. Like did he think you’d kick the girls out and find new ones or something? Head is better than nothing. The way he acts you’d think she chose to go on her period and that you knew and forced him to take her.

I genuinely can’t even imagine what must have been going through his mind to do this. It’s insanity on so many levels. This guy is the biggest liability I’ve seen mentioned here in a long time.

This need more clarification from the side of your roommate,maybe the girl distorted the true to look good. But if it's that plain and simple as the girl told you, then his acting like a spoil child and he needs to rethink in his actions

Roomie is a dick.

Your roommate has anger issues and needs to address it, or it will backfire. Possibly for both of you.

What does their atractiveness and hair colour have to do with anything?

Yes he was a dick - but it's not homicide. Calm down.

Normally I would pile up on the dude for being a loaded gun with very low self esteem. But I think we all know that.

Let me be the devils advocate because some have already starting to argue for suplication and putting up flowers for the "victim" of a rudeness.

The girl knew what she was doing - the girl did not want to fuck your friend and she leveraged a social convention to leave him hanging. You know her scenario - because he is not articulate enough to tell the story of his experience.

Maybe he had a rought time. Maybe he finally got it up after a few months. Maybe he's been led on by other college girls. Is he by any chance a fatso usually picking up scraps from the slut table?

Listen, I know that the regular standard comment is bitches be nothing but ho's and shit. And life is nuanced. But I would argue that even when there's a clear agressor - we try to humanize them and not just editorialize the subject. The worse agressors are actually in quite a lot of emotional pain - despite (intentionally) not showing it. And while femaie arseholes have the "women are wonderful" trope to lean back on when they do decide they need some help or at least a respite from fighting the world - men do not have this option. Ever!

So be kind, be considerate. You might be the only person that has thought about your roomate's emotional well being in years.

Some guys are bad wings.

He's a natural and yet a retard

Teach me your ways neanderthal

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He was trying way too hard to be alpha.

Every good warrior eventually gets blood on their sword.

Your roommate is somehow able to pull, but also an utter dumbass. Period sex ain't bad, just toss a towel down. Or earn your wings and go down, although doing that to some rando is a pretty bad idea. Tastes like iron.

Lol at this entire situation.

Time for your own place.

Why would anyone react like that? Free blowjob with no pressure to reciprocate? That's the fucking jackpot. Ask for a second one, don't get pissed

There's a line between being assertive/"alpha" and just being a dick, it sounds like he's the latter

She deserved it. What a nasty whore.

roommate was a complete tool in this case. girls are right to be upset about it. you are right to think roommate was a complete a tool and in the wrong to do what he did too.

i would recommend the following:

• less is always more when it comes to handling drama in interpersonal dynamics. i'd just tell the guy you think he overreacted but he can do him and you can do you. then i'd stop wingman'ing together like that with him because he's not gonna learn just because you and a couple of girls disagree with him. i'd start keeping my distance from him, he's gonna get himself into trouble and you want to steer clear. i wouldn't discuss this more with him. just do it as non-chalantly as you can.
• if you have the girl's contact info, i don't know the right blend of follow up right now. if you text anything about "sorry about roommate, guy was a tool! he shouldn't have done that!" your putting something out there they could spin into false allegations and since you were there, it could turn into at least a distracting pain in the ass for you if not worse. at the same time, a normal, human reaction is to this would be to not apologize since it's not your accountability but still validate that what he did was wrong to them and reassure them that in future interactions (if any) you won't be involving him again with them. i just don't know the right wording for something that can't be taken to the cops and spun into some kind of admission of guilt to a false allegation of something worse than what happened.

to sum up - yeah what the roommate did was fucked up. distance yourself from that shit, or he'll eventually get some on you too.

What sub is this? What's with all these BS morality comments?

Roommate didn't want to fuck some plate while she was on her period. It's his house and he was done with.

I don't see the problem here.

When I asked why he had to leave he just said “I don’t have to stay with her” “I can leave if I want idgaf”

This part is fine, if cold. There's no emotional investment with a hookup; it's douchey but nothing 'wrong' with it.

and then got mad

But he doesn't like being called out or challenged about it from someone he does care about - his friend, you. He sounds like a bit of a jerk.

There's stringless hookups, and then there's using others with no care for their own fun or wellbeing. That's straight up selfishness. Hence the judgment of your buddy being a douche.

Yeah, I wouldn't go out with him again either. Good call.

Your roommate is an asshole and a moron. And the chick was a champ she still gave him a bj wtf?

This is how a spoiled child behaves when their McDonald's child combo came with the green toy instead of the blue that they wanted.

There was nothing RP about his behavior - let alone adult male.

Not to mention his behavior may reflect on you when the women gossip.

You should have a talk about it. That would have embarrassed me.

What a psycho.

I'd stop hanging out with the guy, honestly. Who cares about a period? It's a completely inevitable and normal part of life. Yelling at a girl who's already given you head is also a great way to get an accusation brewing. Imagine how humiliating and rude his response was.

(Not that false accusations are ever justified. But still, there's no reason to go out of your way to inspire them.)

Either way, guy sounds massively entitled to the point that he's probably going to get himself into real trouble. I'd reduce my association with such a person if I were you.

your roommate didn’t even have to take one for the team, he got a BJ.

behavior he showed is going to make girls not want to come to your place if it spreads (good chance it will.)

if he doesn’t realize how stupid what he did was on a roommate and general human level, I would look for a different living situation.

Is your roommate black?

Good old Red Wings aka the Rusty Mustache.

Look, that stuff happens. Don't do the dirty dogging if you're not ready for bodily fluids.

Your friend sounds both tightly clenched and also sounds like he was born last week. Women start bleeding randomly from their vaginas once a month. No reason to go apeshit.

Wasn't his particular evening. Sounds like hes got a couple loose screws.

I dunno maybe he has a phobia of blood or something.

Take the piss out of him about being afraid of blood. Tell him he's never going to make it as an ambulance driver at this rate. Then tell him congratulations, you now officially have seen this kind of shit before.

Then tell him, he should probably apologize to the girl for going full-apeshit. Tell him he's free to disregard your advice if he wants, but you think it was an assehole move.

Your roommate is a psychopath. I'm not joking. It affects about 5% of the population.

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tbh, this story reads like two retards tried to create a frat apartment together

and you ended up discovering one of you had more than down syndrome

What a dumb fuck. Guess he doesn't know that if he handles his little bitch emotions and remains cool that he would probably get his chance another day.

Your friend sounds like an asshole. Bitches must love him.

found out she on her period, got mad

WTF? Blood doesn't make your dick melt.

Why do niggas refuse to fuck a bitch on her period? That shit don't stop a damn thing but a sentence for me and any man that refuses to blow a bitch back out because of a little blood is goofy af smh

Instead of bitching about your roommate not wanting the settle for head how about you take notes on what it's like for a man to get what he wants. You're on a rp subreddit complaining about a guy who clearly is rp lmfao.

Boys get what they can, men get what they want. All the comments saying he should've been fine with just head and been considerate about her feelings are the boys fyi.

wow I can never get a girl like this to my bed, you guys are so natural, even in million years I can never do this ... good for you guys ...enjoy ...I just cant talk this smooth ...you guys are legend

He is definitely a dick, but seems redeemable. I try to give people the benefit of doubt at least once, man or women. He definitely over reacted, I would talk to him about it causally. I remember my college days being around a lot of alpha dudes and frat dudes that moved like this.

Admittedly I have acted out like your roommate has in my nooob days, I was trying hard and had to calibrate myself, this is definitely a case of over gaming