Lately my LTR has been taking way too long to respond to my texts (several hours) so I started applying dread and went out to dinner with a female friend last night.
When I got home, she was waiting up and confronted me about it. She said point blank "are you trying to make me jealous?" basically calling me out on my dread game directly, which I A&A'd with "what, you don't like my new girlfriend?" She basically started crying and said she wants me all to herself because she loves me, which I escalated into sex.
Did I handle this right? Should I be worried that she's testing my dread?

tetrachromancy 5y ago
Well done
Junior_Run_6496 5y ago
Buddy just wants to stroke his ego
life_be_confusing 5y ago
Good shit.
CochinoChingon 5y ago
This is how it's supposed to work. Just don't get pussy whipped
max_peenor 5y ago
Looks like it.
TopRPd 5y ago
Great game. Lemme upvote this.
btt069 5y ago
STFU and take my free award.
GrandmasterHurricane 5y ago
You did good. Keep seeing that other girl and demote your LTR to plate status. She never valued you enough to respond on time. Don't try to skate uphill. She just proved to you that she needs to be disrespected in the relationship for her to stay in line. Maintain a good character and just demote her from LTR status and keep seeing that other girl. No meed to cheat on her physically.
AlphaBetaSigmaDelta 5y ago
Next. Her.
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danaw1992 5y ago
You fucking asshole, well done! I wish I could shake your hand and buy you a cold one.But don't get comfortable. Now is the time to assert your dominance. Demand things from her, introduce BDSM to dominate her in every way possible
themostgianthorse 5y ago
No. Of course she’s going to test you when you try to apply dread.
I would say you handled it textbook perfectly. Literally a 100% A+.
OneTrueQ 5y ago
Yeah, that was a good ass line
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alphaonthecomeup 5y ago
Good shut. How did she know you were out with a female friend tho ?
LuciidEnigma 5y ago
I would like to know the answer to this as well
PurpleLemon4de 5y ago
Modern communication is pretty advanced these days. We have very high tech methods that include “word of mouth” or even the elusive “textile messaging.”
alphaonthecomeup 5y ago
Dread is mainly supposed to be passive though. You’re not really supposed to be actively dreading - that’s how you get your girls saying “are you trying to make me jealous”
BusterVadge 5y ago
It doesn't always have to be passive. You can employ active dread in rare circumstances. Passive dread (going to the gym, out with your friends where hot chicks will be, etc) is something you should be doing constantly.
PurpleLemon4de 5y ago
If you go out and your girl asks where you’re going or where you went that can’t be passive. Do your partners not ask?
ay-fuh-q 5y ago
Sounds like you handled it perfectly. She was angling for pure control by making you wait. Instead, you went out with a female friend and regained the balance of power.
satkutisM 5y ago
Maybe she was busy. You acted like an insecure beta just because she took longer to reply. I would break up with you if I was in her shoes
Coldsteelforreal 5y ago
Flawless Victory
rdotskip 5y ago
God damn that’s some proper A+A
rashnull 5y ago
This the definitely the way!
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immatonton 5y ago
This was a nice lesson for me. I'm still trying to get better control of dread game, admittedly.
AxP3 5y ago
Wrong approach. Your response will keep her engaged only for a while. Just think about it. You went out and had an entire night of fun on your own. The bitch dares to make it all about her, and you played to her response. You should have dismissed it altogether.
"If I get pathetic enough to want to make you jealous, please dump me and save me from myself."
"I get that you're jealous by default. That doesn't make it my problem. It's just a given."
"Did I fuck your best friend?"
"I had a fun night. Let's keep it going," and escalate.
SenorTonto 5y ago
Savage mode my dude
SmashNDash23 5y ago
Outstanding move
55LostBeCause6 5y ago
What is dread? Does it stand for something?
jhx264 5y ago
It's advanced game for married or ltr
Look up 12 levels of dread
55LostBeCause6 5y ago
Thanks! Will check out for sure
knightblue4 5y ago
legendary shit
Cool-Blacksmith4030 5y ago
You went fucking nuclear, you nonce! Please tell me you did a gradual dread increase which led you to this point?
mosesmalone15 5y ago
champion move
Amon35 5y ago
Nice line my dude Im stealing it.
wanker7171 5y ago
sounds good. The worst response would be to fold immediately when she accuses you of doing it.
Kuneyah 5y ago
Curry for 3, AND HE DRAINS IT!
TheChocolateBarsGuy 5y ago
You are doing it well
GrilledChickenZaxbys 5y ago
Your next post will probably be a pissed off one. Lol
VasiliyZaitzev 5y ago
Yes, you handled it right.
Current-Ticket4214 5y ago
Solid play
Ivabighairy1 5y ago
I hope to God you’re wearing a condom, if not, we all know what your next post is going to be.
lolomotif12 5y ago
Sounds a bit disproportionate dread just because she has texted you late a couple times, but it worked however be prepared for the ton of comfort and shit tests to follow. You went full retard, never go full retard lol
T-C96 5y ago
Thought the same, if she works and has a life a few hours into between texts is normal.
A lot of applauding, not sure I agree
tropicsGold 5y ago
I agree. Dread is kind of a relationship nuclear weapon, and especially overt dread like this. I don’t know if you want to be launching the nukes over some late texts. Maybe you need to work on some other aspects of your game?
lolomotif12 5y ago
Exactly. OP shouldn't have to apply such dread if his SMV is high enough.
Nicocotier 5y ago
Dread means, showing preselection ?