Went to an Indoor shopping mall today for first time in probably 4 years. Can not believe how many hot 18-25yos there were shopping solo. Felt like I was in Europe as there were barely any far chicks either. Pretty much all slender hotties.
Anyone have any luck with pickup at the mall? If so, what's your system/approach look like?
JayRedCorn 4y ago
every RedPill man in history has booked chicks at the mall, the thing is you don’t want to go to the mall with the sole purpose of approaching. It gives off thirsty energy.
mairomaster 4y ago
It's not like they can read it in your eyes that you are there purely for approaching.
JayRedCorn 4y ago
Girls are good at picking up on thirsty energy on a subconscious level
Current-Ticket4214 4y ago
I agree with u/JayRedCorn
AnabolicPenguin 4y ago
I mean....until your attractive enough
mairomaster 4y ago
Sure, but that's why you need to have good game/charisma. If you don't have it, they will pick that thirsty energy up no matter what was the reason to go to the mall.
MyRedGlasses 4y ago
Your sole purpose shouldn't be focused on women in the first place is what he's saying. If you're going out to the mall to find some new pants, and while you're out you spot a woman you'd like to approach then sure.
Purpose first, women second.
Doing so, you don't need to be conscious about coming off thirsty because you're purpose wasn't to approach chicks in the first place.
JayRedCorn 4y ago
This guy gets it
atk352 4y ago
Of course. One way to do it to keep a bag from a store and just put a couple things in it so it looks like you bought something. Thinking doing this as I don't an on buying anything or shopping when I go back.
My main question is what the approach looks like for this.
HachiOcho 4y ago
Orrr just go there to to buy things like the guy said.
mairomaster 4y ago
Bro, I'm not an expert at cold approaching, but even I can tell you that shit doesn't work like that. You need literally hundred of approaches if you want to have some success, no matter how good you are at it and how good qualities you have. This requires time and dedication. You can't expect to do it once in a while when you are going for some shopping in the mall and to expect to get 5 plates like that.
SpaceLuxury 4y ago
I agree 100%. 90% of guys absolutely need to go out and dedicate time to specifically approach females and work on their skills. I think a lot of theses guys who say “you shouldn’t go out looking for women” are just delusional thinking they’re drake and can just get girls with no work. This is a SKILL meaning like any other skill it takes deliberate practice to master.
Current-Ticket4214 4y ago
It doesn’t take me hundreds of approaches to find a girl… if it takes 100 approaches then only 1% of women will sleep with you. If it takes 200 approaches then only 0.5% of women are willing to sleep with you.
You gotta pump those numbers up. Those are rookie numbers.
mairomaster 4y ago
From stats I've seen, if I remember correctly even some of the best PUA manage to get only about 2% of the girls they approach in bed (out of a pretty damn big sample size of data). So realistically, if you are not that good at it, you might need to approach like 200 girls before getting one to fuck you. Sure, you can get lucky an need only 50, but that wouldn't be consistent. Also you might sleep with her, but that doesn't necessarily mean she will straight become your plate and you will be able to fuck her regularly. That's why you need to get a few of them to bed, and for this you need a big number of approaches.
I'm sure there are people around here who know much more about the topic and they can confirm what I'm saying.
DatRiggz 4y ago
If you go full blown pua nerd, yeah it'll take crazy approaches. If you're familiar and have experience with women,.you'll realize cold approach is certainly hit or miss. Far better hunting grounds for closing than mall approaches.
daddysgotanew 4y ago
No one has time for that shit. If you can’t order women off OLD like pizza then it’s already over for you. Just learn to be happy alone
WarDiaz209 4y ago
Best place to approach in my opinion
skyrunner22 4y ago
Always been my go to even as a teen who didnt know anything about pickup/game, lol.. Always got good results even a couple same day lays (would never though possible til I learned game and to instadate/escalate a situation)..
No system really, I just take the overarching themes from game books now and forget the rest so be attractive, assertive, lead, tease, escalate, isolate.. Literally just walk up and say "excuse me, wanted to introduce myself", or if I am really riding high I say "hey I am looking for sugar mama, can you help" (it really doesnt matter what you say, just put in work before hand and put yourself out there)
RedEyeBlackEye1 4y ago
YOU CAN GAME FEMALES ANYWHERE, OP. (Warning ! If you just start walking up to random females while looking(and behaving) below standard, YOU WILL BE SHITTED ON. There WILL be lots of feeling depressed, etc.)
Protips(for your success...and sanity):
1) be Attractive don't be unattractive. This means both physically and behaviorally.
2) haircut for your face shape and grow a stubble or short beard. Keep it trimmed to 4-6mm(sweet spot for aesthetics and attraction). Edge up the sideburnlines, cheeklines, and neckline. If you did number 1 and 2, congratulations! You just LITERALLY enhanced your looks by 2-3 pts!
3) fix your posture and walk with masculine swagger (not sure? Watch Thor, the Witcher, Idris Elba, or the the Rock).
4) give the chick strong eye contact and a slick tooth smile.
5) ALWAYS lead with your charisma(especially if you followed steps 1 and 2 bc handsome men make 90% of females nervous AF).
6) don't oversale yourself, take yourself too seriously, be tryhard, act like a damn "gangsta", or none of that retardedass shit homie. Simply be the cool version of YOU that you strive to become(through self improvement).
7) if wearing a mask, make sure it's a good solid color, good fit, doesn't obscure your eye area too much, and doesn't make you look ugly af.
If you follow ALL of these steps, you will have females throwing choosing signals, hovering, starting conversation with YOU, trying to get your attention, and generally being receptive AF (and making it easy AF). You WILL get to rub on, kiss on, fuck on, and get sucked by most(not all though) sub8 females VERY easily. It took me years, trial-n-error, getting treated like shit, lots of Reddit redpill(and sosuave), anedoctal reflection, lots of googling "why she do that blah blah?", And lots of tweaking my physical appearance (and behavior) to get to this point.
Good luck, homie.
DatRiggz 4y ago
Pro tip: don't wear a mask .
OttoVonBismark71 4y ago
Some pre-selection helps too.
RP_utiliser 4y ago
How do you plan on getting preselection at a mall
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OttoVonBismark71 4y ago
If you're advanced enough, you can use girls in a set for pre-selection for the target girl. In other words, let's say there's a 9 on the other side of the room who you really want. Open up and start having a great time with other girls in her view. Honestly, I tend to do this anyway as I speak to everyone. The point is, the 'target' girl can sense that you have pretty girls around you all the time.
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ssuperiormen 4y ago
I actually do this quite often. I usually just go up to them establish some rapport, get their number and leave (when shopping people have got shit to do). It works really well.
atk352 4y ago
Nice, can you give an example of how you quickly and consistently establish rapport? Do you just walk up and go with the generic " I stopped you cus I thought you were cute" or whats your approach look like
ssuperiormen 4y ago
Smile at her. When she smiles back approach immediately. Or just go up to her and make up some bullshit. I never tell them that they are cute…. Read the sidebar. It doesn’t actually matter what you say. Just be confident and keep the conversation short. Leave after you got her number.
atk352 4y ago
Dude my smile is creepy as fuck. Like my teeth barely show and I have kind of an overbite so it looks weird. Trying to get it fixed but will be expensive.
It's tough cus I get told I look too serious alot of the time and don't know what to do
Fourth_Rose 4y ago
I just nod once at girls and they smile/laugh nervously which is the go-ahead to approach. I have a more stolid demeanor, so nodding without smiling comes more naturally.