Hey so I got her number this Tuesday. The link below is the woman I'm referring to if you want to read that but it's probably unnecessary. I sent her somewhat of a dad joke and she hasn't responded. I'm getting all anxious that I made a blunder, second guessing myself, etc. My plan was to ask her out after she responded but maybe I ruined the mood?
So that we're on the same page: I have met her and spoken to her very briefly twice in person; this didn't originate through a dating app. We've been texting pretty evenly but with several hours inbetween messages, she's always busy.
What do I do from here? How long should I wait for her before I send another text? Should I just ask her out now like I was planning on doing or do I need to reignite a conversation first? How hard did you cringe while looking at the linked image?
I really appreciate the replies in the old threads. Thanks for your time.
old threads https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/mvvhje/i_introduced_myself_to_her_already_what_now/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3
https://www.forums.red/p/asktrp/251810/i_introduced_myself_to_her_already_what_now
image https://ibb.co/QcLnkQq
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Your comments are weak, and "you nose" makes no sense.
You are texting a lot. She's texting a little. You even backtracked on the previous wordy shit.
What picture does this paint of you...... investing a lot of effort into talking to someone you don't know, painting a landscape with her in it?
You don't want to agree to meet, nor chase a woman wearing a mask.
Fundamentally: YOU CARE TOO MUCH. She's a maybe. You've got a 5% chance of fucking her even if you play it right. There are scammers and timewasters out there, she probably is one.
You should be talking to 20 girls like this. So many that you forget half of them. And texting less. And pushing for a meet.
In short, be a fucking man already.
Ceridwen 2y ago
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Seyser_Koze 2y ago
thanks bro
EmpireCrimson 2y ago
Don't overthink it. Given the typo in your text, there's a good chance that she didn't get the joke.
It's not clear where you are in your RP journey, but you should be focused on outcome independence - if she goes out with you, great. If she doesn't, too bad for her, you have other stuff to do. It's great that you've made the first steps, but you should be doing this more often to more women. That dulls the butt-hurt of any one woman not responding to your advances. Abundance, my friend.
celestial 2y ago
i don't find it cringe at all really
i honestly think you should give less a damn about what you say to her, it will show in your communication
Seyser_Koze 2y ago
thanks man
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