i'm almost 16. Next month as a matter of fact. I'm or have been a huge simp until now and loser in general, and i need some advice. So here goes:
as a preface i live in eastern europe, if it makes any difference.
Looks wise i am not the worst and not the best. i am 184 cm tall, good weight(around 80 kg, not a ton of muscle but not a ton of fat either, i am on the more defined side than the average guy in my class, but there is some fat on my legs and lower stomach specifically(which i really need to lose if i want to actually look better and be able to run more than a few minutes without barely being able to breathe).
My face is not really that attractive but not bad either, maybe a 6? or a 7 on a good day. I'm actually able to already grow some stubble so that's kinda cool but unless i shave daily i look like a bum( not long enough to actually connect the sideburns to the goatee so that kinda fucks it up ) One of my big flaws looks-wise would be my posture ( typical nerd posture, also some scoliosis i think, i remember being diagnosed with it a few years back) and my teeth. HOLY SHIT my teeth are garbage. i have a pretty large overbite and a few teeth in the front are crooked as hell ( actually getting braces tomorrow, doc says they'll last for a year or 2.
My hair looks decent once i actually style it i think but what do i know about hair.
With girls i'm awful honestly. The most experience i can remember is simping for 3 girls. 2 a few years back and one last year. The one last year i actually mustered up the courage to ask her out, turned down, maybe she smelled i was a loser or i mistook her kindness for attraction who knows. Other two i can remember( not ones i simped for, others) i remember a girl asking me out last year, a 7 i would say, decently pretty blonde blue-eyed. I just literally froze and walked away. My simp mentality fucked me over bad. Another one i remember was basically simping over me for 3 years, we barely got to see each other (once or twice a year type) but that girl was fucking nuts. One of those "witchesvspatriarchy" type broads in the making if i were to take a bet. Probably HS slut too.
I want the typical white picket fence 2 kids and dog kinda deal but that looks more and more impossible. Hookup culture and the like fucking disgust me but seem unavoidable. Hell i know a girl who on the first fucking day of class this year, before the lockdowns (she's still 15, maybe 16) got a "School tour" from the chad of the class. (she was a new student) Pretty sure he was also fucking the one i simped over and turned me down last year( not sure, i dont know)
I also hate the way most of my classmates behave, smoking like a chimney and drinking like a fish at 16-17. Hell when physical school was a thing they smoked so much that cops had cars permanently in the HS driveway just to catch them. Now given the situation of said hs i'm obviously trying to move out(this one as i said is not really the most harvard-esque of places) but it also doesen't fit me. It's heavily focused on maths and physics and i can barely do those at a 6th grade level. JUST barely.
Currently trying to get over porn(And failing), and i'm not really too addicted to video games, but to the internet in general yeah it's pretty bad
Not really that social, some may even call me antisocial, with some anxiety. i do go to the gym sometimes(haven't gone much in the past week) and i can keep a diet for a week at most. (gotta lose that extra fat before i worry about muscle is the way i see it, what good is being big if i can't run a mile without dying)
My sleeping schedule is decent i would say, sometimes fucked though. I've been trying a new routine: wake up at 4-5, do a little home-workout, shower all that shit, then breakfast and i'm done with all of that by the time it's 6 30. (online classes usually start at 7 so) And this works all right but sometimes( like today) i simply go to bed and even happen to miss my first class
i have a classic and electric guitar too, which i am total garbage at but hey i figured they would be a fun hobby. Now they're kinda collecting dust, it's demoralizing to see how good others are while i am well...me.
So, yea.. any advice would be appriciated.
jpwilk 6 days ago
Pump iron until you can effectively wield Golic's Hammer. The fittest man in the room always has an advantage. Even at Tiddlywinks.
Fawk_Face about a week ago
Preface: I'm American.
First things first is your 6ft and your not god ugly.
Teeth? you'll have braces for 2 years. You'll be 18. You'll just be starting life. Take it easy but not too easy.
You're better off playing video games then scrolling social media. At least video games ask you to think.
Little pro tip for NoFap if you feel you're going to relapse play a video game for 2 hrs. but only for 2 hrs. put a timer on.
then go exercise, practice an instrument...
If you want a productive hobby learn piano. piano is wayyy more useful than guitar. you can program a symphony with a midi keyboard. also learn to sing it makes your ear wayy better. Takes about 5 months of doing (and type this up on youtube)"Baritone singing exercises"
To maximize your looks aim for a 10% body fat. To lose weight do OMAD(one meal a day). and eat fulfilling foods like potatoes n' shit. Just stab a potato with a fork 7 times throw it in the microwave and you got a great snack.
Definitely workout to increase your posture. DO CORE EXERCISES. being deadlift, squats, and ab roller. Leg day is the best day!
Far as girl wise it's tricky to explain. First things first. Everybody is a whore. We all sell parts of ourselves. be it time, skills, or knowledge.
With girls they are just as human as you. They try to appear tough or sweet but you gotta take the brown pill
they poop and fart. Yea... That HB 10/10 Model? She poops... and even farts.
see the secret to getting red pilled is knowing that women actually fart. Test any man... ask him "DO women fart?" if they say no, rem ...
okay ill stop lol.
Women want to enjoy life. So they will do what think they need to do to enjoy it.
You want to enjoy life. So you will do what you THINK you need to do to enjoy it.
Nobody knows how to enjoy life. They just think they know. From being great people to awful people. They try to do what makes them happy.
Me?
I just do what makes me cry less. In all honesty life can be pretty shitty. But as time went on I became more awesome.
So now life isn't that bad.
Don't be afraid to get hurt. Don't be afraid to fail. That is the best thing I've ever learned.
From words, to love, to combat.
We will fall. So that we may learn how to pick ourselves up.
...
Here is a playlist of my favorite "Red Pilled" videos over years.
https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1rJAuBoc234Jy3vWdPvveKTs_z6yaxW6
Enjoy.
Lemmy about a week ago
thanks, i'll give OMAD a try again, it failed a bunch but why not. In your opinion would it be okay to eat more unhealthy during said meal as long as i keep on track with omad? nothing too bad but as an example home made burger and fries or again home made pasta(i'm a sucker for pasta)
Fawk_Face about a week ago
You're still going to want to eat healthy
Food is your gas.
If you put shitty gas in your body you'll feel like shit.
You can still have those meals but keep them to small proportions, like the size of your fist.
Then just throw in mixed vegetables or a potato if your stomech is still adjusting to the calorie intake change.
They'll keep you full.