First of all, I lift five times a week. I am 23 Male.
My whole life I've grown up with the mentality that it's wrong to act sexual around girls. Around my guy friends it's not a problem and I'm usually cracking sexual jokes all the time but around women it's the total opposite. Women tell me that I'm a really confident guy, but I'm at the point where I realize I'm way too respectful. I joke around a lot but never go into sexual stuff with girls. I was raised in a family where sex was never talked about, hell I'm not even sure how my parents conceived me. No touching/kissing/hugging at all. Whenever I see couples making out in public, I get this weird feeling where I feel like something is a little wrong, but I know that's just my fucked up way of thinking that I've been conditioned in to. For example, when my friends talks about sexual things that their friends or gfs done , I felt weird and there is a thought in my mind all the time " how she can do that, she looks innocent" . I know in my redpill journey I have conquered a lot of my problems but I cant over this one yet.
The part in the book of Pook that talks about owning your sexuality hit me hard but I just dont know how to own it, how to act on it. I am not a virgin, I had sex 10 or 15 women but this shit is still haunting me and I believe it is my core impediment to success with girls.
Besides this I'm pretty comfortable with who I am, really good at making friends, and pretty happy with all other aspects of my life except financial side. This sexuality is just making me frustrated.
carnold03 3 weeks ago
Consider investing in a reliable ready reference you can pick up and study to better prepare yourself for engaging the opposite sex. I'd suggest that you get yourself a copy of Doc Love's "The System: The Dating Dictionary". The guy writes a weekly advice column that's mirrored on several sites and runs a podcast. While his media is a bit pricey, it's well worth the investment, but I would also suggest you review his advice column to decide if his view on dating and relationships is aligned with what you aspire for yourself. If you've already found you'd like to read his book, but find money is an issue for you, you should be able to find copies through torrent sites, but I won't say where you should start on that endeavor.
Fawk_Face 4 weeks ago
Be confrontable being dominant.
GIrls want to be dominated.
Enjoy when women submit to you.