Question for the 30+ crowd here: I hear from a lot of you that getting younger (under 25) women gets easier with age, if you keep yourself in shape and are self-sufficient financially. For those of you who are getting with younger women regularly, where and how are you generally meeting them?
Personally as a 34M I haven't had much luck through apps (obviously they are rigged against most dudes anyway), and nightlife is pretty much dead again in my city due to lockdowns. So is the best option day game? Are there other niches you've found to be good for meeting younger women regularly?
Albino 3y ago
I don't really use apps as they tend to be a waste of time. Go all the way to talk to girls no matter where you are as long as they are alone. You never know where this might lead you. As far as the lockdowns in London go it has become impossible to date mate. Imagine that you can not even see the face of the girl as everyone is wearing a mask. This is why one of the reasons I have started using https://www.citybutterflies.com/ and get some real action with some gorgeous ladies and feel alive in this crappy situation.
Redsabre2003 3y ago
I’ve gone out with my buddies I’m now in a relationship with the women of my dreams. I pretty much made a great impression on her female friend who I chatted with and treated respectfully easily beating her shit tests by being calm and maintaining my masculine frame. She referred me to her Friend and we exchanged contact information in a meetup. After that we started FaceTiming I texted her arranging a date and the rest just fell into place with her.
Treat women well and stay in your masculine frame and they’ll put in a good word with the other women they know.
Dating apps and social media felt awkward and forced for meI never have met someone from that.
I enjoyed going out either alone or with a buddy. Before I was in this serious relationship.
I just had fun talking to them while trying to find the one I wanted. This worked for me personally each time I chatted with a beautiful women I got more comfortable doing it. I worked on myself and women saw my hard work which got me to where I am now.
Good luck I know you’ll find someone great soon enough.
JohnnyKingD 3y ago
Get out more often , work on ur looks, confidence and be more social, u need to have higher status which means ur own things and have a interesting life, young girls will be in places where young ppl go for fun or sex or studies or malls, u must attract them through ur masculine frame and being older is a good perk between man and girl
JohnnyKingD 3y ago
Apps and dating apps and social media is depression for men, never go on it , it's rigged from the start too many simps on it showing attention and validation to woman they can't take it seriously and 80% of woman go for the 20% top men so don't bother on apps.
JohnnyKingD 3y ago
Dm me on ig drewsurselfup or YT channel for questions or vids ,gluck.
Anonymous-O 3y ago
Yes, daygame. I get most IOIs from young girls on the street, at bus terminals (even if I owned a car I would take the bus - can't tell you how many of them I have met that way). Don't box yourself in with the typical clubs and app approach. Having a good IG is a game changer, sure. But also meet them out and about. Don't give off boyfriend vibes! I know many of them that want to fuck but are afraid of what friends will say if they are with an older guy. If you look like a player to them then they are onboard. Remember the IG. For most of these young girls this is their life. They spend so much time on it. (and tiktok too). If you can maximize it then you will have a goldmine.