Hi,
I'm looking for some advice on a decision. I'm 23, graduated engineering and have some savings thanks to work + investments + trading (let's say $30k equivalent). I feel I have three paths I could take and wanted some advice on which might be better, from guys who've been there:
- Rent a house and develop a business.
- Just travel for a few years.
- Get a job, save, invest, attend classes.
I think the first two options aren't mutually exclusive, but the 3rd option can't be paired with another option for a few years.
Some background:
I'm a virgin, 5'5", indian guy, started lifting recently. Currently working part time. My life has been pretty linear so far, but I want to optimize it to get laid in my 20s. Any path could work, but which could be the easiest to maximise getting laid?
Redsabre2003 3y ago
I’m 20 lost my virginity at 19. I only did this after I decided that I would take any job that paid well I have no college degree and never will pursue one.
Im Working hard and saving as much as I can. During 2020 I invest the savings I could manage to afford into the s and p 500 index and my favorite stock Tesla. I’ll hold onto these for my children and for my retirement and first house purchase.
My peers were going out all the time to get drunk and high and spent all their weekly earnings.
I decided for myself I wanted to be different I worked hard instead of partying. I started to eat healthier, workout and focused on helping myself improve. I did kickboxing classes before covid now I workout at home pushing myself out of my comfort zone with a rigorous routine that I’ve built up to.
I started out with only 5 normal push ups a day and beginner exercises like one pull-up and 10 sit-ups I also started with dumbbell and low weight beginner dead lifts.
Now I can do 50 plyometric push-ups and can lift weight I thought was impossible at the beginning. I can easily do these exercises after a year of self improvement.
Don’t follow the herd and be a sheep find your own way. You’re the creator and the controller of your life. Make your life the one you want for yourself.
Keep working hard. Save up your money and you’ll thank yourself for it later.
Keep doing fun hobbies and take classes you’ll find beautiful women who love the same thing. Don’t be afraid to talk to them each conversation is one you can learn from.
Keep lifting and invest In your future for the long term. You’ll start to live out your dreams before you know it. Keep your shoulders back and your chin up.
Let me know how it goes. Good luck I personally took the third choice. It gives me flexibility in my life and I’m really starting to be financially independent.
JohnnyKingD 3y ago
Dm me on Instagram drewsurselfup for questions , Im working on a YT channel it may help with u, gluck cuz ur questions has some deep long answers .
thereal 3y ago
I can't advise you on the sexual part. but don't attend any more classes. you can gain any knowledge you want through google. and also if you don't know what financial way you should go, read the 'Unscripted Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Entrepreneurship by M. J. DeMarco' it's an amazing book. it will open your eyes. spoiler alert! you should create your own business and buy property.
nitrous 3y ago
Thanks, by classes I meant more to meet people while learning stuff, like salsa etc. Not academic classes per se.