I had a job interview recently and was doing pretty well. Near the end of the interview, I interrupted the chick that was interviewing me. I mentioned something relevant to what she was saying in a very beta way, out of nervousness. And then I apologized for interrupting her.
I am trying to apply red pill mentality to my interviews, but I occasionally mess up during interviews, Besides more interviews, what can I do to prepare for this? Did I just lose this job, or am I overthinking it?
no_name_user_me 3y ago
During my studies I have been to many interviews but I failed all of them, for the reasons that I do not understand. But I came to this one interview, to which I didn't manage to have a shower, sleep well the night before, my cloth weren't ironed well nor I was prepared. I used google to do some of the tests that were given to me in the interview which I was not supposed to do. The manager did notice that I used google but still hired me. I didn't expect it at all. So don't worry there are many thing that influence the result of the interview which are not dependent on you. Also, don't be me, go prepared to the interviews.
allday365 3y ago
from my own experience, less pandering , your confidence gets more full and meaty when you refuse to frivolously say sorry to people.
one of my big homies was like man. you have got to stop saying sorry to people. after thinking about it like fuck! that makes total sense to me..
i made the decision to stop saying sorry sorry sorry sorry about 6 years ago. boy let me tell you, you dont know the power of words until you make a little shift like that.
dont get me wrong man, there are times when this is warranted. it is not however, the words, “sorry” or even “my apologies” or any variation. its “i messed up. what can we do to fix this.” “how can we move forward?”
may not seem super geared to the topic but it is. but you can do it bro i believe in you.
CaptNoMarriage 3y ago
There are so many variables to interviews that the interviewee has no clue about. For example I've known of positions where they had already decided who they were going to put in the job but to make things appear fair they still held interviews. So those poor souls could have given the perfect answers and it wouldn't have mattered.
In your case I'd say don't worry about it. Use it as a learning experience. Next time just let the person finish and add your input then. Keep at it brother.