I was at a party and I came across a girl I was friends with. She was alone so we hungout and she'd laugh at nearly everything I said and I did some light kino in between and she was extremely receptive to it all.
Occasionally while we were talking I'd just up and leave and she'd follow so I figured things were going well.
Eventually some older guy came in and I noticed he kept touching her and she tried to reject his advances (I think it was because she knew I was watching) but as time went on she stayed with him and she stopped following me around.
So I did my own thing and tried to game other women (it was hard since most girls were taken there), she'd occasionally ask how I was but I just kept hanging out. If I'm being honest I did want her to come back but she didn't so I just played video games with friends while she was with him.
When it was time to go she ran up to me and said "just leaving without telling me?" and hugged me. The guy must've noticed because immediately after he went in for a kiss, idk if they did kiss or what but I think they did.
When I got home I blocked her on Instagram and erased her number. I did the right thing right? Probably should've made a move quicker, but that guy definitely seemed to be mate guarding hardcore and she seemed more into him.
TL;DR: I was hangout out with a friend at a party and she was receptive to kino and would follow me around. Some guy came in and tried to kiss her, she denied it at first, but eventually went back to him (I think it was when she was more drunk).
I just did my own thing and tried to game other women (she saw me talking to some of them), when it was time to leave she ran up to me and hugged me. The guy immediately went for a kiss when he saw her hug me, I think she did kiss him. When I went home I blocked her IG and her number. Did I do the right thing?

MrAgamemnon 7y ago
No.
Don't be a butthurt little twat. You come off as some sour-grapes creep by doing this. Like, explain your thought process of blocking a "friend" on instagram for no reason?
The reason you didn't get the girl was because you didn't escalate. The guy came in and had the balls to escalate.
MeatMetal 7y ago
Well I guess theirs more I didn't mention, I've definitely had oneitis for her for a while now. I tried to get with her about a month back and we kissed but she said she just wants to stay friends.
It's just a matter of I feel like she's playing games.
RossDDMarshalls 7y ago
Forget about her. Oneitis for someone you haven't banged is absurd. She's probably not worth any of your mental energy anyway. If you were having sex with three other girls hotter and more interesting than her, this wouldn't even be a thread, so get working on that.
One_time_back_when 7y ago
I think you overreacted by blocking and deleting. I guess if you have oneitis, do what you got to do. Otherwise, why not leave it open and see if something happens down the road? Why burn the bridge?
MeatMetal 7y ago
I've definitely got oneitis for her. Last month I tried to get with her and I kissed her in my car and she later texted she's not looking to date anyone right now, she just wants to stay friends.
So yeah seeing her get with this guy just shows that's BS.
RossDDMarshalls 7y ago
Kissing before sex means nothing. If you gotta do it, say something along the lines of, "those aren't the lips I want to kiss." It drops sexual tension without the sex. It also shows that you're a chump. Kissing is optional during sex, not required.
DiggerClam 7y ago
Oh, just read this. Yeah, No contact - you're not strong enough around her. Try other women dude.
civilizedfrog 7y ago
Rather than making a move on a girl who was giving IOI's, you chose to play videogames. Did I miss anything?
MeatMetal 7y ago
I only started playing games when she went to the other guy. I wasn't gonna chase her since I feel that comes off as desperate
DiggerClam 7y ago
High Value Male right here!
MeatMetal 7y ago
Well i did try and game other girls there. Damn near all of them had BF's with them, what was I supposed to do? Chase her/mateguard?
DiggerClam 7y ago
What did/didn't the other guy do that you didn't/did?
MeatMetal 7y ago
No idea tbh. I guess he escalated with her sooner than I did even though she turned him down the first time