Little background: 25, self employed since I am 18 Started a new company 5 months ago, it is running great, currently 15k profit per month and growing consistently, will reach 30k profit per month at the end of the year, at least.
The thing is I am only paying myself as little as possible because I want to grow this company as fast as possible. I downgraded my lifestyle.I am living in a shared flat , no car, no traveling, no shit like that. So from an outside view my life seems unsexy - which is kind of true.
How can I still use my story / my business background to display a high smv while living frugal personally ? Can I use this somehow as an advantage ? Should I tell woman openly why I am living frugal at the moment? Should I tell them, that it will change soon as it is just a temporary situation? This will attract gold diggers I guess. Which I want to avoid.
Just looking to add some plates. I do not want to avoid woman completely because sex helps me clear my head
HurricaneHugues 7y ago
They wont care about your reasons, just that youre boring and broke. Prioritize, my guy. Focus on your work. Maybe hqve a tinder/bubmble profile for a hookup once in a while, but focus on your mission. Women only care about finished products.
-_-Andor-_- 7y ago
Women don't need to know about your financial status. As long as you dress well enough and have overall good SMV things should be fine.
enterim 7y ago
The thing is when I only use the normal factors like Fitness, Clothing and so on it just makes me comparable to others in my age group
My value is that I am running a successful business, which puts me far ahead my peers. And this should lift my value as a man or am I wrong ?
thrwy75479 7y ago
You never tell her what you do unless you like her and want to increase your commitment level. She should have to qualify herself to you before you reveal your financial situation.
It has to be difficult to get that information. You have to be a challenge to get. Until then, you're a lactose-intolerant cheesemaker.
-_-Andor-_- 7y ago
You only need to tell them you run a succesful business. If one is a golddigger you will notice, otherwise you don't need to spend (much) money on plates.
boy_named_su 7y ago
I got the most pussy when I was broke as fuck, unemployed, living in shared accommodations, no car
They don't care if you're swole and have game
thrwy75479 7y ago
Makes sense, you had the one thing that actually matters: time.
Bigdoggg323 7y ago
Can vogue. Just be jacked and look good they don’t care bout anything else lmao
WalterBlackPC 7y ago
You don't clear a profit of 15K a month.
If you did, you wouldn't be so brainless as to ask this question.
enterim 7y ago
My company does 15k a month but I do not pay myself a high salary because of tax reasons! I am not from the us
StopGaming1234 7y ago
I question the legitimacy of this. You make as much money in 2 months as I do in a year. I mean, everything is possible, but if that were the case you wouldn't ask such questions.
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I have a car, nice clothes, go on multiple vacations, eat outside and overall am living pretty good while only spending 20-50% of my income a month. (Yes, I live with my parents and they pay 90% of the rent, so keep that in mind)
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With 15k a month you can display the SMV equal of god. Again, if this is legitimate I hope you better got a reason to save up 15k in PROFIT each month without spending any of it.
enterim 7y ago
As mentioned before: "My company does 15k a month but I do not pay myself a high salary because of tax reasons! I am not from the us"
The company is fairly young, so it only does have around 50k in the bank account. I mainly save it because I want to hire 2 people full time in April and we will invest in developing our own software. I want to invest this money in company growth, not personal growth. But I get your point.
Where I come from it is not that easy to pay out money to your personal account from your company. Basically in the process around 50% of it would get lost to taxes, If I let it stay in the business it only cost around 15% of taxes.
AstuteBlackMan 7y ago
Clothes. Take some money and spend good on clothes and shoes. As long as your room is solid you should be fine.
AWorseManThanYou 7y ago
You SMV is determined by your behavior primarily. How much do you value yourself?