Am I going crazy? So I made a FWB my LTR and since then I’ve been noticing weird signs such as missed time with no explanation and other stuff. I feel like I’m having oneitis and it feels bad because I should know better.
She’ll do this texting mind games and not text me even though it’s important. It’s super annoying and it feels like torture. It’s a long distance relationship (she’s at my previous college) (I transferred) and she says there’s no one else and I believe her.
She’s a good girl from a good home and she has only girl friends and rarely any guys so definitely no cheating as far as I can see. I feel like I also lowered my attractiveness by being needy.
So what I’m asking is how can I raise my attractiveness level, and or should I just cut it off? I don’t wanna ruin a good thing but I’m also willing to stop the overly needy stuff as well. Thanks.
BurntYams 7y ago
No such things as a LDR. They’re not possible. Get your head out of your ass. You should know better. Game other women and then cut her off when you’ve built some type of abundance mentality so your oneitis won’t be as crippling
FereallyRed 7y ago
You're an idiot living in a dreamland.
SHE'S FUCKING SOMEBODY ELSE.
embracingtheredpill 7y ago
No, torture is me cutting your toes of one by one.
This is you getting an LTR too soon and having too much time on your hands.
Walk away from her.
Musicgoon 7y ago
I'm saying this with the utmost brotherly love: You have oneitis and are acting like a bitch...
LDR's aren't a relationship. There are no guantees she isn't doing some shady shit. Where is your abundance mentality? Why aren't you spinning plates?
You obviously know this already. So why are you asking us here? Sack up and game other women. And lift if you don't.
goldenjaguar11 7y ago
You’re right I do have oneitis at the moment, it got carried away a bit
sanitypanacea 7y ago
Pretty lies perish here like on le chateau
She will have her phone the entire trip, it's 2019.
She's not texting you back because it ISNT important to her. You are essentially her cat
Rarely any guys other than the ones she actually fucks....
NHHTG
boy_named_su 7y ago
You fucking idiot
WiredT 7y ago
Ghost her ass for a bit. Good girls are generally a facade we tell ourselves for our own ego
goomerall3 7y ago
Betaisation in progress...
xNinja36 7y ago
Stopped reading after long term relationships, they dont work go game women in your area.
Startlivingfornow 7y ago
Long distance relationship is the biggest sign you are a massive faggot.
You’re in such a state of neediness that you’re giving your time and energy to a girl that isn’t as good as a tub of Vaseline and box of tissues.
Realise how fucking dumb that is
goldenjaguar11 7y ago
You’re right.
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goldenjaguar11 7y ago
You’re right I thought because we started as friend that it was okay but I realize that it’s best to just cut it off tbh .
cat_magnet 7y ago
Why do people do LDR? Seriously.
Project_Zero_Betas 7y ago
Oneitis.
RedKnightTime 7y ago
Don't do this.
INNASKILLZ2K18 7y ago
Work on yourself, approach new women, try to create options...
Then cut this off when you have options.
Or cut it now and try to create options.
LDR's don't work. They can't work. It just instill horrible bluepill thinking/behaviour.
RedSkeller 7y ago
LDRs aren't real, like imaginary friends. You're both in college which is pretty sad and pathetic and likely you both know it deep down. She's brushing you off for the inevitable ghost, once she bangs a new dude.
skakalec 7y ago
Guys check the post he made 4 days ago. The idiot hasn't even fucked the girl yet.
INNASKILLZ2K18 7y ago
Oh Jesus fuck. Yeah, this one is firmly in the blue.
One dose of break up, 50 MLS of sidebar and recommended reading, followed by a gym recovery.
This guy needs to be pulled off the front line
goldenjaguar11 7y ago
Well how do I cut it off? Rn she’s going to a trip and won’t be back until a little after a week. Should I just call her or text her now or wait until she comes back? She won’t have service btw where she’s going.
FrontloadPain 7y ago
It's your call really, it doesn't matter. Maybe facing her could help you get over your oneitis if you're able to hold frame. Bring tissues in that case