She is a plate. You SHOULDN’T be spending more time with her other than the time you fuck her. Like you said, she is fucking other guys, don’t give her your free time. nothing else.

Congratulations. You have a girlfriend who is fucking other men.

tbh she probably sees your SMV sinking at this point since you broke frame and got butthurt about her response to raw dogging. SMV isn't gonna lock a woman down to only fuck you when you aren't exclusive to her. She's going to decide that.

Why would you even consider wanting to cum inside this woman who isn't exclusive to you and probably has other guys filling her up anyhow? You're asking for trouble with that.

To me, it sounds like you're saying she's a plate, but treating/thinking of her like a LTR.

We can't tell you how to frame your relationship with her. You've gotta decide how you want to frame it yourself. Although, I will say that with you can only expect a woman to obey rules you're willing to abide by. Meaning, you can't expect her to only be exclusive to you and get upset about it when you're fucking other women.

Dude, you sound like you just want a girlfriend. Spend less time with this hoe and find yourself a girl you can trust and invest that time into her.

Do what you want. If you enjoy spending time with her then do it. If you want her to be exclusive and she won’t, then you need to move on. More fish in the sea. Do what makes you happy

Bro, she ain't a plate if you are getting cut about it.

Sounds like she is actually a FWB with a low key hit of exclusivity (on your part). If you temperament continues, she is probably going to push you aside.

Stop doing bf activities. First step

I had a similar experience recently where the TRP community woke me up to what I considered a plate and something more so on the lines of a FWB or girlfriend. It sounds like you desire something more than a plate, which is totally fine. A plate however is just for fucking. If you want more, than you have to first become aware of that desire and embrace it. If that’s what brings you joy, then go for it.

The best way I can describe it, as it happened to me as well, is that you’re struggling to pinpoint what exactly it “is” you have with this girl. On the surface you want to call her a plate, but it seems as though you desire more intimacy that goes along with an LTR. You don’t have to force yourself to spin plates. It probably is the way to go in 2018, but you aren’t under any obligation.

Sounds like you've caught oneitis... i've been there. All you can do is spin more plates. She is not girlfriend material, stop taking her out on dates and cut contact with her for a week.

What’s wrong with her fucking other guys if you’re fucking other girls?

You should ask how she feels and maybe move to be more exclusive. If not forget about it I guess

>I said I only do that with girls who are only fucking me only. she said “its fine then” which basically means I want to keep fucking other guys including you so i wont take up your offer.

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Maybe there's some language barrier here, but, doesn't mean she fucks only you?

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There are two ways of dealing with this:

1- Fuck her and get busy for anything else than fucking her. Never say no directly, say that you will see, or find an excuse. Its fine to spend some extra time with her after fucking. But just make sure you always have something to do after fucking her. If not invent an excuse. Dont go out with her. Suggest to her to go out with her a few times, just to give her a sense that you want to go out with her, its reverse psychology. Then obviously find an excuse and dont go.

Note: stopping doing with her what you were already doing can lead her to go look for other guys. For example it is easy to never pay a woman anything, but the moment you start paying you are fucked, same applies to anything you do for her, including spending extra time with her. This will make her resent you, which then its enough hamstering to go for other guys. You basically made yourself look like a cuck by asking for exclusivity, i mean you were not obvious about it, which is cool, but it should be her begging you for exclusivity, meanwhile bang other girls. Who knows if putting on a condom next time will make her think...

2- If she is acting funny, like treating you like a cuck, you can always just fuck as much as you want, and dump her after some days. Pump for a week and dump.

In this case its not an issue if you spend time with her and do boyfriend stuff with her, because you gonna dump her ass anyways.

You can also use dreadgame and make her want you. But i think by now you are already vunerable, i would dump her and go for another one. If she wants anything let her chase you.