https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/8vgv8u/need_advice/?utm_source=reddit-android
This girl came to my house for two days ago. She told me "It is better to not see each other again." When she came home, we made out in a passionate way. We did everything except sex. She left home. We agreed on not see each other again. She will leave the city tomorrow. Today she texted me " I want to have a last dinner with you. ". I told her " If you want to see me I will be at home all the day, come. If not, goodbye. " She still insists on have a dinner " my last request from you. My last wish " blah blah. I have feelings for her and my bluepill side says " go and seize the last moments with her" but I want to have sex with her and I know we will not have sex.
Should I go to dinner with her for a last time? Or Should I still say "No" ?
BeeBopJoe 7y ago
Shes going to get validation from the dinner and end up not coming back to your place. You should have been more careful with your choice of words, you encouraged more ASD by saying "If you want to see me come if not goodbye".
Hard next
bannedfromWTFmod 7y ago
Tell her you'll come if she is paying.
fblackstone 7y ago
Generally I pay the meals , she pays the drinks. I know she will not.
mrpthrowa 7y ago
"Come give me a free dinner".
That's literally what she's telling you.
Have some self respect.
ChadFromColumbus 7y ago
You have oneitis. Forget this girl, who cares what her “last request” is. The only exception is to cook for her at your place then smash after.
fblackstone 7y ago
I have a big oneities. You are right.
micr0penis 7y ago
Hold strong. Be brief. It'll work it or it won't, but giving in to her demands will definitely not work.
So just politely and firmly explain she can take it or leave it, as you're indifferent.
fblackstone 7y ago
I am planning to go dinner. After dinner I will go her place with her. Or What should I exactly say? ?
ChadFromColumbus 7y ago
Why are you asking for advice if you refuse to take it and are going to fall in her frame and orbit anyways? Pathetic. Stop wasting our time
fblackstone 7y ago
I did not mean it. I am listening your advice.
micr0penis 7y ago
Dude you're bending to her will. She's walking all over you.
I guess there is a chance of pity sex, but highly unlikely.
FearGarbhArMait 7y ago
Let him learn. OP go meet the girl, touch her kiss and if she feels guilty. Just go back to kissing and touching, escalte. Slip off her bra, wear it on your head so she knows you are bigger. Slip off her panties, flush them down the toilet. Come on be a man!
fblackstone 7y ago
I went to dinner because I wanted to make this mistake and learn from it. We had dinner together. After she invited me to her place. I tried my best game. Outcome independence, push pull and self amusement. Whenever she said no, I started from beginning. We had a great sex. Thank you.
FearGarbhArMait 7y ago
I'm proud of you, did you wear her bra on your head ????
fblackstone 7y ago
I really understand my mistake. I need to stop being a bitch and real man.
FearGarbhArMait 7y ago
Yea wearing the bra on your head signifies dominance, if you don't she will think you don't even know what they are for.
SirKolbath 7y ago
What should you do?
You should stop being lazy and read the goddamn sidebar.
vandaalen 7y ago
You don't want advice.. Fuck off to a chump sub.
izzyinjurious 7y ago
In every post you're in the comments listening to everyone's advice, but you're not actually listening. STOP. It's very annoying for the people who come here and actually want/need advice. You're wasting not only your time, but everyone here reading and helping. I had to look at 3 of your posts and at the end of each one, the same rule applies. Read the sidebar.
If that's not clear enough, let her go, move on. "Yes, I have oneitis." So, stop acknowledging it and do something about it. You know that feeling the rush you get when you're in control of the girl and you're about to get laid? guess what? That Russian chick is not the only one who can give you that rush. They might not be as pretty or they might be, but you sir can get what you want if you read the sidebar. Good luck mate.
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FearGarbhArMait 7y ago
He F-closed. He is learning. He still needs the sidebar.