Im superior to her and her peers

Dont kid yourself, even if you are Chad she can cheat on you with Vlad

lol'd hard @ superior to her

You meet her actions with your actions... dont even bring it up. She does something that doesnt match up with committing to you the. you remove your commitment. I would just let this be casual.

Jesus Christ you guys really check your GF's phones? If someone's going to cheat, they will cheat. It's not your fault and you should not give a fuck. The one who cheats it's the scum, fuck it.

Move on instead of being insecure, there are a a lot more women that men in this world and fuck if you should be like this because of one

First trp lesson I learned in life before even finding this sub. If she's going to be disloyal, she will be no matter what you do or check for. If shes going to be loyal, your only fucking your own frame up.

My policy is if I get a gut feeling a woman is fucking around, or even get suspicious, its over. No talking or arguing. Better off going to the next one or even being alone than dealing with that can of worms.

You cant unring the bell of being so insecure you have to check a chick's phone. Now literally every dude has that over you when she's "out with the girls".

There's a really good post in the SIDEBAR that you should read over. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/456o0h/mateguarding_dont_do_it/

Does she have access to yours?

I may be wrong but it looks to me you're about to breakup. Same exact situation happened to me before a breakup.

You know what it meant, it means she either is or is going to keep secrets. Could be a man, could be venting to gf or fam about you. Either way, your stock is plummeting.

Fix yourself either way. Own your shit. What are you doing to make yourself lower value? Are you failing shit tests? Are you entering her frame? Are you doing what she wants or what you want? This is a shit test btw, did you get upset or disregard it as like it was nothing?

React or don't, but stay in frame. I would probably disregard it and go lift, golf, or play poker. If you GOTTA KNOW, flat out ask her in an extremely matter of fact tone if she wants to part ways. Your mood should be indifferent though or else you enter her frame and she will realize she can manipulate your feelings.

I'm superior to her and her peers in almost all aspects (so hypergamy should be in check).

Well, that's up to her. Hypergamy doesn't care if you find yourself superior.

On your actual topic: I'd treat it as a warning sign. Be prepared for something to happen, just don't act as if it already did happen.

She met someone new or re-established contact with one of her back-ups in her friendzone because she's afraid you'll break up with her. In the latter case, it doesn't matter if the guy has lower SMV than you. She's doing this instinctively. Women generally have a harder time staying single than men and very often keep back ups.

You actually check her phone? Why are you so insecure?

Well if you can still check her phone, you have an upper hand. If she fucks up or you have a hunch you just check it and you will know. It is even better because now she thinks she can hide it.

Trust your gut feeling. Check her phone in the middle of the night if you wish, just don't be surprised or angry by what you might find.

Take away affection, see how she responds. Should give you enough information to tell you what to do. Different responses will mean different things and to be honest, it'd be impossible to tell you exactly what each response means without knowing everything there is to know about her so your going to have to rely on your own experiences with her.

This sounds so stressful. Why would you want this to continue? There is an abundance of beautiful women that want to fuck. Why would you put yourself through this shit just for one of them? Your fear of losing this chick is fucking you up big time dude...you're not in your frame at all

In these moments, there are no accidents, only coincidences.

First thing my girl did when I got with her was tell me her password and put my fingerprint in her phone. Never has a problem with me using her phone and told me if I ever want to I can check away whatever I want.

However yours is doing one of two things

1. She is planning on fucking someone else and doesn’t want you to know.

2. She is clearing out the way for her to explore and talk to new dick, while at the same time training you mentally against that, saying “it’s just to build trust that we shouldn’t have access to our phones”

Your woman should be 100% transparent. She’s not. Big red flag.