I'll be brief. Chatted with this girl on Tinder. Got her number. Said I'd text her a time and place to meet, as I'm not yet sure when I'll be free next week.
She wrote: "I want to know what we're doing now, I'm not waiting around for your ass"
And
"Why are we texting? You can call me, you know? This is a bad match, I don't know why I gave you my number"
She's not that hot, I figured I'd pass and ghosted her. Was there a better move here?
Thanks!
Quaternionz 8y ago
Open with a witty or playful comment about something in her profile. Exchange maybe 2-3 lines of text and then say "We should hang sometime. How about <location> at <date and time>."
Get her number only for getting in touch at the time of the date.
She has 2,000 other matces, even if she's not that attractive. She doesn't give a shit about you and has no incentive to wait or pine after one particular dude, or suffer any anticipation.
Be decisive and immediate to increase your success rate.
At this point drop her. If you have a negative interaction before even meeting there is neither any hope nor any point.
andtoc 8y ago
Very insightful. Will correct my mistakes. Thanks!
[deleted] 8y ago
I disagree with him, the fact she gives a fuck and is even texting you at all means she is interested in some capacity. Those are shit tests to test your frame and see if you will roll over". The point about having 2000 matches works the opposite way, yeah she has 2000 matches yet she is spending time and effort trying to see what she is doing with YOU. Sure she is being bitchy about it, but girls like that long for an assertive alpha to put her in her place.
I'd wait a day and say something like: "settle down princess, Im a busy man. turns out im free wednesday night, lets meet at x for 9."