I’m looking to actively start doing cold approaches with women after growing incredibly tired of tinder. I have had success with it, but I feel like I am not growing or improving my game whatsoever by only having Netflix and chill dates.
I understand that I will fail many many times starting out while cold approaching.
My question for you guys is: what do you usually say, or what DID you usually say when you ask a girl for her number and she essentially says no (either lying about why she can’t give her number out, or flat out says no)
SirKolbath 8y ago
It doesn’t matter what you say. Just don’t be butt hurt about it. One of the better replies I heard, but never used, was, “No problem. I hope you take my interest as a compliment.” Then walk away. It’s a little more defensive than I’d like, which is why I didn’t use it.
Mostly I just say, “Okay. Have a nice day.” Give then a sincere smile. Your SMV wasn’t high enough.