As the title says. Usually I just straight ghost. But this girl has fallen for me really hard. I dont see a future tho, so im trying to let her down easy since shes super kind to me. Ive tried cutting contact but that makes her come on even harder.
I tought about saying something in the line of "im not ready for a relationship" but i think thats gonna hurt her.
Any tips?
mismm 7y ago
Go full beta.
Batmanforreal2 7y ago
Hahha yeah would work, but its gonna take too long
Saberinbed 7y ago
Tell her the truth? Sit down with her and talk to her seriously like two grown adults. Tell her you’l never be anything and you only see her as a friend. She guna be hurt either way. Ghosting works if you don’t give a fuck bout the persons feelings. But you do. So be straight up.
Batmanforreal2 7y ago
Man i hate to say it but im affraid youre right. I hate it to hurt ppl, but i assume better now than later..
satanicpriest13 7y ago
I was in this situation some time ago. I told her I was an unapologetic national socialist. Showed her my shrine to the Fuhrer.
I said it would be against my morals to be casually sleeping around, and I couldn't see a future with her if she didn't share my views.
liberty1127 7y ago
Don't do anything. Stop worrying so much about how she feels.
Batmanforreal2 7y ago
Yeah youre right. But idk its kinda sad.
liberty1127 7y ago
You know what man, it can be...just depends on your perspective. You can spend your whole life worrying about how your actions effect everyone in your path, but that can also cause you to not do the things that are right for your own wellbeing. Think on it.
Batmanforreal2 7y ago
Thanks dude. Youre absolutely right. Needed that!
[deleted] 7y ago
Tell her you are polygamous