So here is my question, how do I maximize success using TRP principles? How do I guarantee a lay/more? Me and this girl are going to get coffee tomorrow, and I need advice, here's some context. I finished school, in the subway, heading home, I sit next to girl, homeless man sits between me and her, asks her for money, begins making her uncomfortable, train gets here, me and her get up, train is empty, she sits right next to me, out of all the seats. Looks at me and says "I wanted to move away from that so badly, but i didnt want to be rude" and we began to talk, eventually I got her number. Next day I texted her and said it was nice meeting her blah blah blah, she replied and asked if I wanted to get some coffee. I see her tomorrow morning (Wednesday), how should I act? should I pay for the coffee? any tips for me to guarantee success?
Some details: I am 18, in college, shes in the same college, both commuter students, she's relatively new to the city, same as me.
Basically, what should I do tomorrow
Big_Red_suppository 8y ago
If you think you might get nervous just remember it's only coffee, no big deal. You could be doing something better so no reason to come off as too interested like a lot is at stake, be chill.
I wouldn't get too worried about paying for the coffee (don't offer but also don't be weird about a buck fifty) if she starts ordering a bagel sandwich and shit though tell the barista you're separate orders orders when she asks what you want (Don't tell the chick, tell the person taking the money).
Jerk off on the bus ride over too, or before you leave your place if you aren't stealthy.
redpilledjoe 8y ago
you had me up until that last sentence what the fuck lol
Winterfuzz 8y ago
Why jerk off? Lmao
Thunderstacks 8y ago
Damnit! Do what the man says!
Winterfuzz 8y ago
That was 91 days ago brother
justshootinblanks 8y ago
Read as much sidebar as you can between now and then.
Winterfuzz 8y ago
Do you have any detailed advice pertaining to my specific scenario?
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Winterfuzz 8y ago
Do you have discord?
redpilledjoe 8y ago
howd your coffee go? just from reading your post it seems you have a lot to learn.
Winterfuzz 8y ago
It went well, I think she likes me because I teased her a little bit, gave me hints. I was only able to hug her at the end.
redpilledjoe 8y ago
good. wait a few days and make another date. preferably at your place. make sure you pick up where you left off aka hug her right away and you better get the kiss or more on the 2nd date
Winterfuzz 8y ago
I’m gonna wait a few days and call her and say “you asked me out last time so it’s my turn, we’re going to ___ on Wednesday”
This good?
redpilledjoe 8y ago
Imo I hate talking on the phone I find it a bit awkward with girls you just met. But she could enjoy the forwardness or not, it's up to you. I would just shoot her a simple text like, "You free X day? I'm doing/going to do X you should join me"
fnordsnord 8y ago
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Winterfuzz 8y ago
To get laid by her
CutLiver 8y ago
You're thinking of this like she's in the position of power. Your response should have been "To fuck her".
Winterfuzz 8y ago
You’re right
bluepillcarl 8y ago
Do not pay for her coffee. See how things go.
CutLiver 8y ago
No need to be nervous, bro. She asked you out, which indicates a high level of interest. She's into you. Basically, just act like you did on the train and kiss her when you're going to part ways. Say "we should just get this out of the way" and go for it.
She did ask you out so she might offer to pay, but... it's a coffee. I would offer to pay. Like I said, she likes you, so the date will go well as long as you don't act like a weirdo or say dumb shit. Afterwards, don't text her. You want her to be thinking of you. Wait 2-3 days, then text her and set up another date. If she texts you before that, set up a date. Don't text back and forth about random shit. You want to get to know her in person and create the opportunity for sex. (the 2nd date should be at night, close to your place)
Winterfuzz 8y ago
Still live with strict parents and my college commute is about 1 hour away from home lol. But yeah I know a place
Winterfuzz 8y ago
You really think I should kiss her on the first date? Lol