This bitch is gonna get pregnant and take all your doctor money.

LTR and 3 months are mutually exclusive. You are just getting to know her and banging her exclusively.

That said, now is the time to either run, or acknowledge that you want those things too even if is just a 3 month relationship with a woman you are getting to know and is "mentioning" marriage after only 3 months of a relationship with a guy she is barely getting to know.

Marry her and have a kid as soon as possible. Then when you get divorced at age 25 and have to give her half your shit, you’ll come back, actually read the sidebar, and be the most red-pilled motherfucker alive

Tu Bhartiya hai teri Angrezi se lag rha hai aur jis tarah se tune doctor likha hai

Bro I was encouraged by my ex to become a doctor ! She also was very self-centered. You see how the logic doesn't work? STOP everything right now and Read the manipulated man by Esther something. It's free online. First few pages are enough to give you harsh crude raw insight over what goes on the minds of women like your gf. YOU DONT UNDERSTAND what's going on the pussy is taking over your mind.

My mother was a doctor and was dead-set on me never dating during high school and even into college. Seriously, she’d sabotage every opportunity she could outright. Come to learn that the reason she did all that, aside from being a controlling person, was that she had seen time and time again, a girl locking down a medical student, hoping to be married to a doctor. She told me that without fail, every guy would fail out of the program. You’re 21? There’s a whole lot of study and practice ahead of you... My cousin is now a full blown doctor, was near top of her class and she confirmed what my mother had told me. If she gets pregnant or is a distraction, you (considering the odds) will fail or drop out of the program. No joke. You fail out and she’s pregnant, she’ll hate you for being a failure. It’ll be her way or being a doctor.

Relax.

You're free to change your mind any time in the next couple years if she starts losing interest. Women aren't that rare. Don't get caught up in Sunk-cost considerations. If the relationship is good, NOW, then you should keep investing now.

You're the gatekeeper of commitment. You have the power to ignore, disregard, and walk away at absolutely any time.

Act like it.

What fuck-fuck-fuck said. Drop her before you fuck yourself over. Your trying to become a doctor and she sees your potential, she sees that she is amidst a gold mine.

Last time I checked nobody here is condoning a young man in his early 20's to hop into LTR's, only to gain power and max out their SMV. You should be spinning plates, maximum. Riding solo, minimum. LTR is out of the equation for you man, your focus cannot be on this girl when you have an opportunity like this in front of you.

After you complete everything, if you still wish to pursue her then go ahead, but right now you are only hurting yourself. I can almost guarantee you that with the path you are on someone better will come around in the future.

Your choice though.

Obviously don’t get married. And the fact that she’s only been your LTR for 3 months and is already talking about wanting to marry you is a yellow flag at least. She’s trying to lock down your doctor money.

You don’t owe her marriage just because she’s fucking you and you committed to her. You’ve already given her your commitment and that should be enough. Sooner or later, Disney Princess is going to have to realize that if she wants a wedding, that you’re not her Disney Prince and she will need to find another guy if she wants a wedding. If she ends up leaving you over that, all that says is that she wasn’t serious about your relationship (or a marriage with you for that matter) and just wanted a wedding and/or the option to divorce rape you.

Either way, by eventually letting her know your feelings about marriage, you dodge a bullet. You can’t lose.

You don’t have to be a dick about it, but sooner or later she’s going to have to find out that you plan on never getting married. She probably will throw a fit and try to guilt trip you by talking about how she’s been planning her wedding since she was 3. Don’t be captain save a ho. Holding frame will be absolutely crucial, and she will reward you for it in the long run.

I have no idea how you've been reading TRP for close to 3 years and still have to ask this.

You skipped a necessary step in the process:

Spin Plates

GET OUT!

Dont do it. I'm 42 been there done that, have 2 kids and a divorce if you dont feel it , dont even think about it

Well shes already calling the shots and you're screaming for help.

Just fucking say no. "Babe, its been amazing 3 months but I'm not thinking about the future, much less about marrying."

Red flags everywhere here, you'd think this story took place in russia or china. You're about to run honey covered dick first into a minefield filled with bees who rape men up the ass. It's a trap. Marraige is a horrible idea. I've got five steps for you.

Step one, drink about two shots of whiskey. Step two, take a cold (As cold as you can get it shower). Step three, hit your head against the wall (25- 50 times should do it.) (I'd slap some sense into you personally but I'm probably not close enough).

Step four, read or reread The Predatory Female and The Manipulated Man

Step five, dump her.

It's a divorce rape waiting to happen

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She's not the one, she's not special, its just your turn.

I have never been in a LTR so take what I say with a grain of salt - but I would just deflect any of those statements and diffuse any talk of that sort of stuff whenever she makes it.

If marriage is a goal of yours, keep in mind your thoughts from your post. 21, lifting, soon to be doctor. you are the prize. she should be afraid to lose you.

stop dude.

you're gonna get married, become a complacent bitch, but not before she gets a kid or two out of you. then she's gonna get bored because you're too busy being a doctor. then she'll divorce you and take half your income through alimony and child support.

live for yourself. if you are a doctor making six figures id argue getting a vasectomy would be a smart move. just reel in prime nurse puss, hit it raw, and laugh when they try to say you got them pregnant.

I’ve read your post and all your replies up to this point. There’s one of two things happening here. Either she’s a marriage-minded woman who is verbalizing her goals to you or she’s just trying to tie you down because $$$.

Unless you get a real unicorn+best friend feel from her (NOT oneitis), I’d assume the worst—if for no other reason than to protect yourself financially and emotionally. Do not assume she will change for the better. If she’s absolutely amazing and does nothing but improve your life she may be a keeper. But she won’t magically turn into a good wife just because you put a ring on her finger.

I know I doesn’t seem like it now but you will have tons of options as a young doctor. Marriage should be very far from your mind, especially while still in school. I’d say late 20s at the absolute earliest, if at all. Being a doctor opens so many doors (and legs). You’re going to kick yourself when you’re 38 and the new interns are creaming their scrubs for you while you go home and try not to piss off the 300 lb missus.

My gut tells me if you wife her you’ll be depressed and/or divorced by 40. But it’s your life and your decision.

She sees the potential and is tryna lock you down, insecurities if you will. You can either be a man and tell her what you expect from your life or be a mouse and go with what she wants. You know what to do.

EJECT EJECT EJECT. This is simple, ask her why she wants to get married???? She flap out some bullshit about wanting marriage and she was raised that way and some more blah blah blah. It’s all what someone else told her.

Stop thinking about “we”. We have been a couple, “we” should get married. “I/we” should have kids.

She’s along for the ride. Figure out what “I want”.... can you picture Martina this chick regardless of how much you love her yada yada. It’s time to reflect and back away. She wants money, she’s already planning how to spend yours lol. Damn right she’ll be a stay at home mom. It’s not malicious yet, but give it 5 years