I know that people cheat, that some women happily smile to their husbands while they are fucking behind their backs etc. I of course hate being (thankfully only once lightly) or seeing cuckolding happen, hell, even in porn, which I believe is normal as a male.
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However, what I'm still "angry" about for lack of a better word, is being the one who is "causing" it. Like, fucking someone's girlfriend etc. Due to my blue-pill conditioning, even after almost a year, it's one of the last things at the moment that still makes me feel "disgusting" on the inside.
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I also understand that I'm technically not the one who's doing anything wrong, the girl would be if she cheated on her SO with me, but that still doesn't help me swallow the nastyness of a situation like that.
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I haven't even been in those situations that some Endorsed contributors talk about, like fucking her while she's texting/talking with her boyfriend etc. Holy fuck.
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Any cure to this?
Ramp_Up_Then_Dump 7y ago
You dont have to "hgotta fuck em all" type player just because trp says so. Just act the way you want dont let this anger hurt you or you game. There are enough single sluts anyways.
KeffirLime 7y ago
Do what feels right for you. There's no script.
Each person is out for their own, if that includes fucking chick's with partners then so be it.
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moltenw 7y ago
My script is the exact opposite at the moment but I think you meant that in comment.
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Have you perhaps had a "shift", or maybe seen someone else here talking about that? Like, at start being very against the idea due to their "morals" etc, but after a while their morals change and they start to not give a fuck and just TRULY embrace it as a natural thing, instead of just "knowing it" (like I am at the moment, without too much experience to understand how it feels, if you get what I'm saying).
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KeffirLime 7y ago
I have. I was very much against it. Now not at all.
I avoid fucking chicks with BF's because of the possible drama that could ensue, but I have no moral defense against it.
The only person you are truly responsible for in this world is yourself, and the only person you can truly control is yourself too. If they are fucking you, it's what they want. They need to live with the consequences of their decisions.
If they're cheating on their SO, there's a reason for it, I'm not here to ask why.
moltenw 7y ago
Makes sense, I think I just need more experience and time.
A bit unrelated, but how do I best manage to not let this impact me when I start thinking about it?
I had a great day today, for example, but then I saw some...clips of that shit... and immediately afterwards I had the "...what am I doing, this feels bad" thought. Suddenly, the realisation about "nothing matters, there's no point to anything" kept coming to me etc.
The only reason why I choose to do "worth-while" things even if nothing matters is because it actually feels better even if it's harder, but when that reality check comes back once every week or two, it just leaves an empty void inside of me.
Any idea how to deal with that or perhaps you've experienced something like that yourself?
KeffirLime 7y ago
Realize that it is what it is. Your views are largely shaped by your culture, as long as it took to build them up, breaking them down is just as difficult.
Nothing matter on a large scale, life is pointless. However you still have a living experience. You still feel, touch, smell etc. Rather than think of what the purpose of it all is, rather think what is the best way to enrich your living experience on a daily basis.
Do what brings you joy, eat great food, see great places, fuck great woman, your only responsibilty is yourself, make that experience as blissful as possible until you die, then life goes on.
Read the post "Life Shouldn't Be Like Anything, It is What It Is" in my post history, answers alot of it.
moltenw 7y ago
It's actually called "The World Shouldn't be like anything, it is as it is", just so you know in case you want to recommend it to someone else as well! I have read it It seems since I've upvoted it, but I'll read it again. I think I know what it is about as well, and I "understand" that as well. Eckhart Tolle's "The Power of Now" book is probably on a similar track to your post.
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Cheers.