I'm on the road a lot for work and stay in a town for no more than two nights, but usually just one. I'm trying my hand at dating apps on the road, and I get that most of it is the pics and being attractive, but idk if I'll be able to build enough comfort for a ONS via these apps in just a day. Any tips?
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Chad1738 8y ago
You aren't trying to build comfort at this point if its a quick ONS. You need to just go for the meetup. I got a good opener going "wanna come over and do my laundry for me while I play video games?"...Some girls will turn it sexual and then I can do some sexual banter back and forth for a bit, get the number, and then text for a meetup. She'll either be down to meetup or she won't, most girls wont want to fuck right away but you will find some who do. good luck.
Scuzzin 8y ago
Thanks. I'm gonna use that line of yours too, and I may not give you credit for it.
Chad1738 8y ago
It’s cool. I got it from u/DiscordantMonk and it’s been working well for me.
DiscordantMonk 8y ago
Thanks dude! Its the perfect IDGAF opener
atticusfinch1973 8y ago
Some apps (like Tinder) have a feature where you can tell it you're in a different location. One time I did this while traveling and started swiping and matching three days before I got there. As a result I had a bunch of matches and three dates lined up before I even landed. I got laid that weekend.
The other advantage of traveling is you can literally be anyone you want. I always used picture of me with my band and pretended we were in town for a weekend for a show. Or one time there was a film festival going on so I pretended I was an actor in a movie.
clausternn 8y ago
It's a paid feature off Tinder Plus.
I agree though, it's a great feature to pay for.
clausternn 8y ago
Just curious, how did you do this? Did you set up 3 dates for 3 different times? Did you set up more than one date for the same time, just in case one of them flaked?
Did you have to do a second date or you managed a one night stand that weekend?
That's a great idea. They didn't do much checking, google your name or something?
atticusfinch1973 8y ago
I set up one the first night (the one who seemed like the most likely prospect to put out on the first date) and then two the following night assuming that one would bail, which actually did happen. I ended up with first night girl going out with me again on the second night (canceled the other girl) and got laid because it was a second date.
I told them it was a bit part and was even embarrassed to bring it up but for the right woman it still gives a boost to your SMV.
Remember you can be anyone if you're not planning on sticking around. Learn to tell good stories and be convincing and it's easy. I've convinced women I'm a professional athlete. If they think you are hot enough they won't care and it gives them a good story for their friends.
[deleted] 8y ago
I recommend stating up front in your bio that you are just in town for the night. That will make it a lot harder to find girls that want to meet up, but they'll be much more likely to have sex with you when they do. Your worst case scenario is spending an evening with a boring/annoying girl that isn't DTF, not chilling at the hotel bar or watching football.
Then, I recommend using an adaptive approach to your messages. The night before, you can attempt to go back and forth a bit and build some rapport. As you get into the day of, start getting more direct. The direct approach will scare away more women, but also lead to a faster meetup with those that are interested. About 1 in 6 or 7 matches that text back and forth will agree to an explicit ONS.
If you have multiple options, be more direct and go with whomever is receptive.
Avoid being *too* direct. Don't say you want to hookup or have sex. Say you're just "looking for sexy fun time friends", or "to have some fun".
Finally, one thing that I find helps an enormous amount when arranging hookups (ONS or regular) is to frame it as *your* boundary. Say something like, "I'm only looking for xyz right now". Make sex with you the consolation prize. Assume that she would want you as her boyfriend and reject her, then offer sex. The more implicit this is, the better. Guys tend to say "hey you want me to give you amazing sex tonight?" blah blah blah. That's actually quite needy as you are essentially asking/begging for sex. Frame it as you being willing to have sex with her, but not more.
Scuzzin 8y ago
That's good
oytrp 8y ago
Just like anything else.
Isolate and escalate. The hard part is finding someone willing to meet that night.
Scuzzin 8y ago
You right.
Dating9throwaway9 8y ago
Be way higher SMV
Scuzzin 8y ago
LOL True
RedSkeller 8y ago
Swipe recently active, go to the bars while you swipe and chat while swiping. Put something along the lines of 'looking for fun people' or 'show me around'. Something good is bound to happen.
HurricaneHugues 8y ago
There is no dark magic or advanced science involved. Sex takes 2 people to happen. Each person has to desire the other person. The only way to get sex faster is to be really desirable to your potential partner.
In other words: Be really fucming attractive, and don't be unattractive.
Thats like asking how to get a job really fast. The answer is to have a very strong resume that would appeal to a potential employer so that they can reach out to you fast and expedite the process. When they see a good potential employee with a great track record, they will want to snatch him up first before he competition does it.