Alright so right there in the title you already know what's up. I'm not a complete noob but some guidance would be appreciated.

My main girl dropped this on me last week, and it felt real as of today.

"My friend & I are going to get Brazilians and then go to the beach for St. Patty's day weekend!"

Her friend did not invite her BF. I answered with a nonchalant ok / resume Netflix and Nut session #47.

I've been seeing this girl as a plate for about ~4 months. Within the last month or so feelings were discussed and we are saying I Love You, etc. I said feelings are fine but we are not exclusive, kept my options open, etc.

She is a 24yo partygirl. Obviously I let her get above strict plate status, but I would say my "love" for her is mostly just infatuation and sex. She said I love you first & I supported the narrative for the sake of seduction.

Maybe I'm over invested anyways, but I feel way less invested than the last time round so.. take that for what you will.

When we met I was actively, actually spinning 2 other plates (she saw & met). These others are gone now. It's been long enough without a new girl that this one probably feels fairly comfortable.

I've continued to game and have a few hookups but no other plates since this girl, but i don't brag or post photos really so she may erroneously believe she is my only source of pussy atm.

Either way she's the only repeat customer at this exact moment.. "the only plate" aka my default girlfriend.

Typing this out the direction seems obvious. I'm not willing to try and be exclusive with her. So..

I will create some distance, make sure I go to my next big weekend event without her, and fuck other women.

Made it this far and get the context? Cool.

Knowing that my strategy is to fuck other bitches.. should I do anything to manage this one?

Should I tell her not to go? Should I say, "my girl doesn't go on sketchy trips" etc.? She said "but I'm not your girl" last time I drew a line in the Sand. And I said "exactly right.. but you dress for the job you want." She seems to have taken that one quite well so far with no repeat infractions yet.

I feel like this is one of those gray areas where I must choose between Alpha 1.0 & Alpha 2.0.

Traditional logic says that even if she's not "mine" then she is. I could attempt a double standard here. "You did not ask permission so the answer is no, slut." Etc. All without changing anything about our "relationship status". Basically let her know directly and indirectly that she can be my little special fucktoy but she has to pay the price and play by my rules.

This could result in her fucking only me and me being free, or her acting like she's only fucking me and lying.

My best guess regarding this girl is that this strategy might work. It may also trigger her ego. Or she may perceive my lack of veracity in pursuing other women & this attempt at control as a sudden and irreperable loss of frame.

The second approach is to be that laissez faire, give no fucks alpha 2.0.

"My friend & I are going to get Brazilians and then go to the beach for St. Patty's day weekend!"

Basically I say nothing at all and let this happen. Her wanting to go on a Slutcation with her Slutfriend is not something I should attempt to prevent or control.

Instead, I just move on to other women. Slowly deprioritize her in my schedule, back down to plate levels, and be as brazen as I feel like with other girls.