Over the past weekend I met up with an old female friend for 4/20 activities. We kissed, I tried to escalate and lost control of the situation. We were both high, and i misinterpreted her signals. I didn’t think it was smart for her to stay with me if we were going to be drinking later, especially if She felt uncomfortable escalating while we were really high. She freaked out and wanted to go home which is a fairly long trip. I told her I wanted her to get home safe and not read about it in the paper, so i told her I would help as much as I could and dropped her off at a safe place of her choosing. I’m pretty freaked out cause it’s out of my hands rn. I got a Venmo request for a train ticket today and was wondering if I should pay it. I don’t want too, but I think it might be the best thing for covering my ass.
Edit: I offered to help as much as I could to get her home (and she didn’t ask for money then) she didn’t really want any and also wanted to cut off all contact.

Narcissist456 8y ago
You don’t owe her shit. Ghost.
[deleted] 8y ago
Shit in a basic brown bag, put the bag on her porch, light the top of the bag on fire, ring the doorbell, and run.
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RedFelix 8y ago
I escalated farther than she wanted to go ( although I’m not sure this is why she freaked). She was looking for more than just sex I think , and I basically told her that’s fine but she shouldn’t be alone with me when I’m under the influence. I’m a bit hazy as to why she freaked but I think it’s a mixture of her feelings and my actions in escalating.
uwotm891 8y ago
Ha dude it sounds like you were giving off a strong rapey vibe.
Her: I really like you RedFelix. I want you to be my boyfriend and I don’t want to move to fast.
Op: that’s fine bitch, but if you’re around when I get fucked up....well...I can’t control myself and we’ll be playing hide the salami.
Her: B-B-But RedFelix I don’t give you my consent!
Op: bitch, I don’t need no consent. Once I catch a buzz, it’s game over for that ass. So if you want to remain an ass virgin then I suggest you run.
But seriously, it sounds like you might be a bit autistic and couldn’t read the non-verbal cues that she wasn’t interested at that point in time. Probably should chill on getting high, if it turns you into a retard, while trying to game bitches.
-Spooky-7 8y ago
You’re may be right, does that mean I should reimburse her for bus ticket to my place? I’m not seeing why I should
uwotm891 8y ago
Hell no! Use this as a learning experience. If this girl insists on you reimbursing her then ghost her ass.