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RunawayGrain Endorsed Contributor 8y ago
I'm assuming you're in high school, based on the described scenario. The thing is that most girls are boring. The other thing is that these girls are viewing you through the lens that all younger girls do: are you a potential mate. You aren't, possibly because you are a family friend, so you are invisible to them. I get it that you say you wouldn't plow either of them, but these two probably just became sexually aware/active and the switch is turned on in their heads now to only value top tier males. Welcome to 80% of men.
So realize a few things: It isn't your job to entertain them, or even get them involved. The reason that women like Chad is because he's spontaneous and exciting. The reason Chad is like that is because Chad is out there doing what he thinks is fun, not trying to cater to others as you are trying to do with these girls. Sure it may not be sexual in nature, but the interplay is the same. They see it as just another guy trying to get in their pants. Yes, even if you aren't. Something you may be about to find out is that around sixteen, even average girls have guys throwing themselves in front of her for sex, so she assumes any interaction with a male has sex as a backdrop.
Except go on the trip, ignore them, and spend that time doing whatever makes you happy.
I'll give you a challenge: Game another girl on this trip who's objectively better looking than either of these girls, one that you actually may be interested in. Ignore the other two. Not in a rude way... be polite. But keep interaction to a minimum. You're busy with the other girl. See how fast these two want to approach you and start yapping then.
[deleted] 8y ago
Thanks bro. I will follow what you said and try to do the challenge as well.
infamous3238 8y ago
Get one to blow you while the other licks your balls. That's not boring.
Narcissist456 8y ago
I second this motion.
[deleted] 8y ago
If you read my post you would see that they are family friends, we have known each other for all of our lives and I have no intention to bang any of them. Also they just recently became like this.
Mentioned this specifically to avoid these answers
c_w_o_o_l_l_y 8y ago
What does this have anything to do with whether or not you would want to bang them?
trpboy123 8y ago
You don't. Do something else with your precious time
[deleted] 8y ago
We are all going on a trip and there's nothing else I can do besides learn to talk to them.
StrongAffordance 8y ago
Or just do what you want to do and offer them to join. If they don’t want to, that’s their problem not yours.
curtainrodman 8y ago
They’re boring because you’re boring to them. Do interesting stuff with them, lead them places, introduce them to new shit.
[deleted] 8y ago
I tried doing this, but like I said, they act like zombies and ruin all the buzz so I just stop trying afterwards. I guess it's probably me
ra_god94 8y ago
Alcohol is the answer
[deleted] 8y ago
Yeah, probably some roofies would do the job too
cl3537 8y ago
Think about how Chad would act with them. He shows sexual intent and energy right from the start. He flirts, he makes sexual comments, subtle at first and more overt over time. This takes a lot of practice and a DGAF attitude. If done well these silly girls will be excited, turned on and suddenly will be showing you more attention.
The flirting and balls to show clear intent is what separates Chad from the 80%, most likely the attraction window with these two has closed but the practice of being a Chad is necessary with them or with future women.
It is incorrect to say that girls especially teenagers think or "know" who wants to sleep with them, sure they have a general idea that guys want to sleep with them, but they don't really know if you do unless you show clear intent. Girls are much more afraid of rejection than we are, they really need to know before they will consider it. You don't just overtly tell them(she has to be warmed up through escalation) but your body language and escalation lets them know in the right way.
This is seduction science and is severely lacking in these forums.
Next next next is a weak ego protecting move designed to prevent you from being treated badly by women, but it doesn't help you get women at all.
[deleted] 8y ago
So you are saying to act like I want to fuck them and seduce them otherwise we can't have fun? You are probably right that they would probably try more if they would be attracted to me but I am pretty sure most women don't only have fun with their fwb/bf or whatever.
cl3537 8y ago
Its not black or white (Bf or non BF). The flirtation and sex talk is fun. Building up sexual tension is fun. If they aren't having fun they won't give you much attention. The fun doesn't always lead to sex and you never explicitly tell them "I want to fuck you" or its not fun anymore. The chase and be chased is tension is all part of the fun.
The 'game' to play to make it fun is you pretend to be interested in a amused in a non needy way and this gets their hamster spinning and them more interested in you. Whether you actually fuck them or escalate is up to you and up to how they are responding you are just pre heating the oven.
chazthundergut 8y ago
You are working way too hard to give these girls attention.
Stop trying to talk to them. Stop trying to play games with them and include them. Stop bombarding them with your validation.
Go on vacation and have a blast doing your own shit.
[deleted] 8y ago
Only tried to since we actually used to have a good time a few years back and we see each other rarely. Guess they reached girlhood like others said and I should just go do my own thing.
Thanks
ht2k9 8y ago
The only thing that will be intersting to them is talking about relationships. But I don't if you should.
AWALT, dont give a fuck about them and act like you have your girl and they will approach you. If they tell you hi, tell them yeah, cool.
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[deleted] 8y ago
You might be right I suppose, but It's not like I don't find them interesting or the topics they talk about interesting, they are, like I mentioned before, zombies most of the time. I don't know if I ever saw them having fun in any circumstance besides sitting on their phones.
I might not be the most interesting person ever but I try having fun with anyone and try not to be a downer.
Wrath_of_Trump 8y ago
They don't find you attractive. Why are you hitting on family friends anyway?
[deleted] 8y ago
The fuck is wrong with you, I am not hitting on anyone.
Wrath_of_Trump 8y ago
What is your fucking question? How to make family friends not be boring? I dunno man, chase them around with a fucking knife or something
[deleted] 8y ago
The question was how could I communicate with them troughout this trip. I got my answer already though: don't