Happened to me a while ago and I was wondering what would you guys do if your girlfriend cheated on you while you were soft-nexting her?
She justified it by saying "I thought you broke up to me so we were no longer together."
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failingtheturingtest 7y ago
Next. To move the fuck on.
Soft next. To move the fuck on quietly.
Hard next. To move the fuck on while burning bridges.
Whether or not you HAD broken up with her verbally, you had nexted her. The issue is that you threw something away and now that you're trying to go back through your rubbish, you've found out it's gone bad.
To next, you have to be willing to walk away. She did, you weren't willing to. Now you've played yourself.
onpuzzle 7y ago
That's not really what soft next and hard next means. Soft next means going silent for a few days while hard next is going silent forever.
Bruchibre 7y ago
Beg for her forgiveness and marry her. She’s a keeper.
Throwaway-242424 7y ago
Nexting is just that, nexting. The message you sent was that you were demoting her, but what you meant to send was some silly game that she beat you at. You played yourself here.
bluefingerblue 7y ago
You’re not broken up until it’s verbalized. If it wasn’t verbalized, she cheated on you. Leave her and never speak to her again - don’t give her that satisfaction.
[deleted] 7y ago
Agreed. This is how I've responded in the past and it worked wonders for me. Women also hate silence and a lack of attention, so it often makes them suspect that they'e done something wrong.
TheTrenTrannyTrain 7y ago
Block her on everything.
Morphs_ 7y ago
Now you understand why a soft next has its problems when applied in an LTR. Girls can pull this shit and try to get away with it.
Anyway, demote to plate silently. If she ever gives you shit say "I thought we were non exclusive FwBs now".
Batmanforreal2 7y ago
Well you feel cheated on so, hard next.
Framexemplary 7y ago
Funny how all misunderstanding serve her. So she had a few days to play around and hopped on the carousel. NEXT.
daytonbull90 7y ago
Ya who cares, you were leaving anyway, if she fucked you during the phase-out without telling you she fucked a random, that's pretty shitty and you should get yourself checked. Otherwise move on, the quickest way over a girl is under three more.
HurricaneHugues 7y ago
Bruh? Do u really have to ask?
mrHappyPotatoe 7y ago
She is right you know. She didnt cheat. You are trying to play games. Whats one of the biggest and main rules in red pill?
Dont play games!
RedHoodhandles 7y ago
Marry her, have some kids and live happily ever after. What else should you do...?
triggeringsjws247 7y ago
lol imagine caring about this shit
fuck-fuck-fuck-fuck- 7y ago
LTRs are explicit. You have an explicit conversation to become an item. You have an explicit conversation (or an angry text) that confirms the LTR is no more.
If you didn’t have that conversation and she sucked some other dick, she cheated.
There is no frame in the world for you if you accept her back and puff out your chest – “Don’t do it again!”
ppanthero 7y ago
Hard next.
KKpaperstacks 7y ago
If you have other plates it shouldn’t really matter... Upgrade her to a hard next and fill her position