So do women actually enjoy sex, or just the validation / other side effects aspects of it?
Is there even a way to find out, given that you can't trust what women say on the subject, and their actions can have hidden motivations?
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So do women actually enjoy sex, or just the validation / other side effects aspects of it?
Is there even a way to find out, given that you can't trust what women say on the subject, and their actions can have hidden motivations?
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willowhawk 8y ago
Jesus Christ posts like this display the dangers of how an aspie can run away with ideas
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terryschocolate 8y ago
@OP It's funny the way you're getting downvoted into oblivion yet you're the only one speaking sense in this thread. This subreddit has a shit calibre of people - maybe try the more dominant RedPill one, or mrp.
But anyway, to answer your question:
Physically, I much prefer masturbating my clitoris than having to endure penetration if I'm not soaking wet. I could go the rest of my life without sexual intercourse, but I doubt I could live without masturbating my clitoris.
Mentally, I love being fucked by an alpha, because of the validation. The psychological high I get from being fucked by an alpha far outshines the fact that penetration without clitoral stimulation is, in general, not pleasurable to a woman.
The men (mostly teens I suspect) downvoting you here have massive egos after having been lied to by all the women they've ever had sex with. These are the men who will tell their new date that they've consistently given all their previous partners an orgasm. Bullshit.
Women are partly (mostly) to blame here, because they continually lie to men, saying they're satisfied with the sex -- until the validation shine wears off. I wish women would be more fucking honest, if only on the internet if not in real life... I, as a woman, hate the fact that the only place I can read in-depth research into how women really think is on a male-dominated forum like the TRP and not somewhere like AskWomen or twoxchromosomes, where they will shadowban me for speaking truth.
mrrooftops 8y ago
Hey aspie, there are many dimensions depending on how she feels about the person she is with. It's not a binary thing, it's a multifaceted 4-dimensional spectrum of factors.
zboo1h 8y ago
One of the harder things for me to realize was that women enjoy YOU enjoying sex the most. Don't focus on her pleasure, focus on what you want and use her like a toy - that does all sorts of cool things to a woman's brain chemistry, she will become your slut for as long as you demonstrate that you're her master.
Of course, go and tell her you love her one day and "make love" to her and watch how fast she loses interest.
Agent008t 8y ago
That's my experience as well. But that implies that the enjoyment of sex for women is ~90% psychological. So sex isn't really about sex for them. No?
zboo1h 8y ago
No. It's an expression of their "love". And you can tell when a woman doesn't "love" you anymore because she doesn't fuck you anymore. Most women also NEED to feel "love" so they cheat or monkeybranch or whatever. They absolutely MUST have a dick to suck.
Agent008t 8y ago
But expression of "love" != enjoying pounding.
zboo1h 8y ago
What? The alpha that she LOVES is dicking her brains out, how could she not possibly enjoy that? That's literally ALL THERE IS TO HER LIFE.
Agent008t 8y ago
Alright, and my point is that if alphas didn't care for sex and instead got off on sticking their pinkies up her nose, she would enjoy and LOVE that just as much.
zboo1h 8y ago
Yes. I had a girl a few years ago that if it was my fetish to watch a girl blow her brains out she would've bought her own gun just to please me.
Right now I've got a couple girls that just want to blow me, they don't even need me to fuck them, although I do sometimes, sometimes I just let them suck me off.
Women are fucked up, man.
StrongAffordance 8y ago
Who cares
[deleted] 8y ago
This is the right attitude.
btrpb 8y ago
Wow.
needoptionsnow 8y ago
Not with you
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Agent008t 8y ago
But how do you know that the ones that are good at it are not into it just because they are good at it, like the way they make the man feel, enjoy the power/effect they have on him - and not because of actual sex feeling good?
Entrefut 8y ago
Yes... but there’s a lot more psychological factors that go along to enjoying sex for women. They definitely absolutely fucking love sex though... they’re programmed to.
Agent008t 8y ago
How do you know they do though? They may be putting on an act or enjoying it just because of the validation, even though the physical sensations of penetration/pounding do nothing for them.
Entrefut 8y ago
You know... how many times have you had sex dude?
Agent008t 8y ago
But how do you know that you know? Maybe she's enjoying it for completely different reasons than you think she is.
Entrefut 8y ago
Once again, how many times have you had sex? They definitely physically enjoy sex or they wouldn’t use dildos to get off one their own ????♂️
Agent008t 8y ago
I would argue that women using dildos in private, when they are not putting on a show for someone, is a relatively rare occurrence. Which is kind of my point.
Entrefut 8y ago
Nah man, they do that shit plenty. Everyone loves the endorphins released by good sex, even with themselves
Agent008t 8y ago
How do you know?
Entrefut 8y ago
So many ways dude, go give it to some girls. It’s pretty damn obvious if you don’t suck at sex ????
TheTrenTrannyTrain 8y ago
Yes. If she enjoyed it you can tell easily.
Agent008t 8y ago
But she can enjoy it for many reasons, e.g. validation. How do you know what's going on in her head?
minoc_uo 8y ago
You are doing it wrong
mrpCamper 8y ago
With me? Yes. With you? Apparently not.
MisunderstoodAsian 8y ago
They obviously don't with you if you feel the need to ask this question
abdada 8y ago
Don't trust a woman to act like a man. You probably can't even trust yourself and you're worried about what others think? Shit, I'm probably twice your age or more and I still have moments where I don't trust myself -- work on that first.
Phoenixston 8y ago
Women do receive physical pleasure from sex but what most really get off on is the feeling of being desired by a high valued male (e.g. validation). That’s why so many are into rough sex and manhandling. They LOVE the feeling of having a guy who can’t keep his hands off of them.
McVaghunter 8y ago
They enjoy fucking muscular men, not soyboy shits with manboobs.
Agent008t 8y ago
Alright. Why is there not a market for it then? Surely if women enjoy fucking muscular men that are good at sex, and such men are relatively rare, they would be willing to pay for sex with such men?
Unless sex is not really about sex for them, but about validation, and if sex wasn't a thing for men they wouldn't come up with the idea.
McVaghunter 8y ago
There is a market for it. It' not a big market tho because muscular men don't turn down free pussy even if it's average... A 5/10 girl can still fuck a chad for free but she can't keep him as an LTR.
bluemoviebaz 8y ago
Pretty sure they like it more the slags
RedpillLearn 8y ago
Are you assuming women are all monsters 24/7 to the point that they only have sex for the purpose of manipulating you? Women aren’t that bad man, like seriously you way over analyzing this..
Agent008t 8y ago
If men didn't want sex - that is, it just wasn't a thing for them altogether, do you think women would still try to get it from men, pay them for it etc.?
If it's not about validation, manipulation or other side-effects, why do women tend not to penetrate themselves/simulate intercourse during masturbation?
RedpillLearn 8y ago
Have you heard of something called orgasms? Women also have this and it’s scientific that it releases something that makes them feel good. I feel like I’m talking to a flat earth believer smh.
Agent008t 8y ago
Yes - most women have clitoral orgasms and the way they get them is very different from fucking. Have you seen a woman masturbate? If sex was about orgasms for women, you'd think every woman would have a dildo that she would be impaling herself on in her private time. Instead, it tends to be vibrators. Having sex seems to be very orthogonal or at least a very roundabout way to having orgasms.
it_takes_the_redpill 8y ago
You need to do more research. Look into clitoral vs vaginal orgasm. While your at it, look at different types of orgasm for men, too. Also's not all about orgasm. That's a wrong assumption.
There are just different nerves and receptors in there, and shit feels good. Hell, I knew a girl who told me she loved (read: insatiable desire) to be fucked on her period. Something made it 10x more sensitive/pleasurable for her down there.
Point is, you're trying to draw conclusions from very little information. Those conclusions are wrong. So wrong that they're comical to those of us who have had sex more than a handful of times.
RedpillLearn 8y ago
Dude you’re overthinking, good luck.
Agent008t 8y ago
It's more of an academic interest, doesn't really affect what I do. Just curious.
_Ulan_ 8y ago
Read the sex god method.
h4nkz 8y ago
it's a form of validation, so yea
IronJohnKwando 8y ago
wtf