I'm 28 years old. Been heavily attracted to girls since puberty.
I live in Paris, so there are tons of beautiful young women. You would have to walk 1 hour in Paris to see about 30 to 100 cute girls.
I never got what I wanted from any girl.
I go to the gym, but I'm short, bald and I have an ugly face.
I don't want to die without "getting" some of those hot girls that I have been desiring for almost two decades now. It's physically painful to see them every day and to never get anything.
I used to approach them but since a few years men began to be arrested and thrown to jail for opening women in public spaces. Just last week a man was sent to prison for 1 year because he tried to flirt with a girl on the subway.
I know that with my ugly face, my neediness, desperation and the aftermath of my major depression they would report me trying to talk to them as assault and I don't want to go to jail.
Got2B22 7y ago
France is fucked, get out of there asap. I recommend Poland, Hungary, seriously, France is a laughing stock
beefthathasredmiddle 7y ago
From what I'm reading you don't really respect yourself. I don't mean that harshly, you need to better understand your strengths and weaknesses. What's in your control, and what are the things you can never change.
Look man, you're 28 years old, it's not too late to take a step into improving yourself and your mindset. I don't think approaching women is a good idea for you right now. You need to take a hard look in the mirror and realize that you need to take ownership of who you are. Stop trying to make what you do about women and start making it about yourself. Take up some hobbies, try out somethings you've been interested in but haven't gotten to do.
First thing I would do is make a list of things you want to do, things you can do alone, that aren't dependant on others. Then do one of those things each week. You'll find somethings aren't what you like, or you may find something you are passionate about. Try to find a purpose, and don't make that purpose women.
Iwannachokekatie 7y ago
I'm in a similar boat as this guy.
Your advice won't help him get laid. Learning how to play guitar by myself at home isn't helping me get laid.
beefthathasredmiddle 7y ago
Yeah, it won't get you laid, but maybe you'll learn to not give a fuck when find you more important things to do in your life.
Iwannachokekatie 7y ago
I get that, but I don't want to be an incel forever.
trpboy123 7y ago
For now the just focus on yourself. Build some self-respect. Then go out and try to get girls.
Iwannachokekatie 7y ago
Won't make me any more attractive.
WeddingCrasher91 7y ago
Do you post your videos on Instagram or any social media?
Iwannachokekatie 7y ago
Videos of what? Playing guitar? I never touched an instrument in my life and I got the guitar this monday.
WeddingCrasher91 7y ago
I got my dream electric guitar almost 2 years ago but barely practiced . Iam still a beginner also. I working out at the gym and practicing guitar daily. My goal is to post my guitar cover videos within a couple of months on social media. Maybe that way, people in your social circle will notice you better
Iwannachokekatie 7y ago
I'd be down to take my acoustic to some events and play once I'm good enough to pull it off.
I have no social media and don't plan on getting any. It's a circlejerk for attractive and popular people and the average Joes are just cringy.
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Redasshole 7y ago
That mindset used to be different but still I wasnt' getting any...but yeah I should change it too, it can't hurt ! thanks
Iwannachokekatie 7y ago
How much you squat and ohp?
If you're that ugly why not save up and get plastic surgery?
anabolic92 7y ago
Answer those if you want me to waste more time with you:
Do you shave instead of trying to hold the fucking 3 hairs you have left?
Gym (weight/height/bf) and diet?
Define your clothing style
Redasshole 7y ago
yes I get a buzzcut and I like it
I am 171cm tall, I weigh 70 kilos (still in the process of cutting for the summer).
lunch/dinner : chicken or ground beef with rice or pastas, sometimes with some tomato sauce or curry, fish twice a week with mashed potatoes. I eat few veggies, truth be told, be a lot of fruits as dessert, plus some yoghourt. I don't eat whey protein. Every once in a while I eat a pizza and some ice-cream. I do bodyweight training.
clothing style is non existant. I wear suits at work but outside of work jeans and t-shirts
Iwannachokekatie 7y ago
Try minoxidil for beard growth or a more hardcore solution steroids. I had a patchy, peachfuzzy goatee before hopping on and now I have a passable full beard.
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Grow a beard. If you can't read, up on minoxidil use in face. minoxbeards subreddit.
Most guys, especially bald guys look better with beard.
How tall are you? Do you have a mission in life?
Redasshole 7y ago
I am 5'6 and yes, I do have a mission in life !
WeddingCrasher91 7y ago
Just do a hair transplant to solve the balding issue. Ca va?