Alright, I have a good friend in my university (he is a junior and I am a sophomore) and I started notice a couple of patterns for the past few weeks.
The first being that the girls that I meet and fuck around with start paying attention to my friend. At first, I was totally fine with it but then as more girls start asking 'who is this guy, gimme his snapchat blah blah blah' I start getting a little more concerned about this, and just cut contact with that girl all the time, which is a shame as some had relationship potential.
The second being that random girls approach me out of nowhere (a good example being at the gym) I was doing my set and he went out to the bathroom. This girl started approaching me and asked 'Hey, whats your friends name' and again, this started happening more and more often.
I've been lifting for the past year and a half, I've joined a fraternity (while he hasn't). I just am at a lost for words that these girls notice my friend way more than I do (He has the same height and build as me), while I'm being neglected. What made the sudden switch and how can I make sure that I would be more successful in terms of sexual strategy than he is? As well as if he really is AMOGing me the whole time, how can I deal with this situation?
king_kay_ 8y ago
You shouldn't see him as a threat. He's your bro. If anything, let go of your ego and pride and learn from him. Clearly he's doing something right.
Also, stop comparing yourself to others. You do you and focus on it.
twxxx 8y ago
beta AF
orilyrily 8y ago
You are not being AMOG'd you are being jealous. You are passing the buck from your own insecurity and the girls hypergamous nature on to your friend like some bitch. This guy deserves a better friend.
None of these girls were potentials. Get a fucking clue, stop resenting your friend, and read the sidebar.
EinReichEinVolk 8y ago
Invite him out for drinks under the pretext of catching up, have a strong drink (80 proof or higher, no ice or mix) and a cigarette lighter on you at all times, at some point in the night while you're making small talk 'spill' the drink down the front of this guy's pants and in the same motion, swipe your lighter across his crotch (as if you were going to light your cigarette but were too buzzed, lost your balance and spilled the drink, then lost your handle in the lighter trying to recover) igniting the alcohol. As this asshole is standing there with his nuts on fire, you just walk away smirking.