I know this question isn't purely "Red Pill" related, but I'd like trp's advice here.
The threesome is already set up with two plates. Just curious if any guys here -- WHO HAVE ACTUALLY HAD A THREESOME -- can offer some general advice/things they wish they would have done different in a MFF threesome. Or whatever -- position ideas, what works, what didn't, etc.
Thanks!
[deleted] 8y ago
It's not that big a deal. Drink some whisky before so you can relax and go to town. I took one of those gas station dick pills and I was rock hard for 3-4 hours.
Downside is borderline heart attack and bloodshot eyes lol
Swap them around every 5 mins and fuck them rough and hard.
[deleted] 8y ago
My one concern is busting too fast... whiskey's probably a good idea.
max_peenor 8y ago
Your dick doesn't fall off after an orgasm. You actually get to use it again. How this is ever a problem I will never understand.
[deleted] 8y ago
I know... its still ok to hope it doesnt happen.
failingtheturingtest 8y ago
A little whiskey! Don't let your nerves force you into whiskey dick!
Also, changing positions (or the forced, brief pause of PIV sex) really helps to stave of an approaching orgasm. You now have a direct reason to be changing positions frequently.
Feel it coming on? Control your shit, get out, grab the next one and lay your face in her nethers for a minute before giving her a go. You've just reset and ready to go for a while longer.
The longest I ever last is in threesomes for this reason. You don't get bored or get the mindset of "that's enough for this round" and let it cap off until you are ready again. No, you fucking make the most of every minute and just tear up everything in sight.
[deleted] 8y ago
i love this... thx
failingtheturingtest 8y ago
Also, ration. In more than half of my multi-girl experiences there are a couple of things at play.
One gets tired/sore before another.
One is excited about experimenting with a girl so more focused on that.
They might not be comfortable with me using the same condom I did with the other.
This combination means that I have to be aware that finishing is a lost condom, switching girls is a lost condom. Each round I want to at least give each of them a turn, so each round requires MINIMUM 2 condoms. Know how many are in your box, don't let that be a reason you don't get your fill!
[deleted] 8y ago
Gas station dick pill
LordThunderbolt 8y ago
Those things actually work?
FTFSM 8y ago
Some do...or are supposed to, I haven't tried them. Some of them actually have small amounts of Viagra in them, those ones work. There was a report on it I saw that had a list of the ones that they found Viagra in. Last time I looked, those pills were still behind the counter.
i_forget_my_userids 8y ago
Yes
[deleted] 8y ago
Yes
WontonSoup77 8y ago
That shit really works?
[deleted] 8y ago
Yes. I fucked my ex for 3 hours or so with a rock hardon.
I didn't tell her I took the gas station dick pill.
My eyes were blood shot, hands shaking, heart was racing and I was sweating like a pig. I felt like I was going to die.
When she started asking what's wrong that's when I had to whip out my cock.
Take at your own risk lol
[deleted] 8y ago
I have some Viagra for rec use... I'll use that.
drqxx 8y ago
Much better.
VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago
Careful not to take the whole pill. That's a rookie mistake.
Mildly_Sociopathic 8y ago
Is that actually a thing? Taking only half?
TryhardPantiesON 8y ago
It is a thing, take half or a third of it.
I took the whole pill once, blood vessels in my eyes were literally imploding, my body temperature raised, and it looked like i had fever, but i felt ok, also you can get a mild headache.
VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago
Unless you enjoy painful hardons, a massive headache and sweaty, flushed skin, then yeah, it's a thing.
Mike377774774 8y ago
Yes, it's enough.
[deleted] 8y ago
Lol oh Ok
Late30sMasculist 8y ago
My first few 3somes were a little rough around the edges. The number 1 thing I wish someone had told me is not to try and keep all the girls happy all the time. It's too much pressure. Instead, go into it preparing to lead the interaction, and focus on 1 person at a time. Think of it like two people teaming up on the other person to get the "receiver" all horny and feeling good. So you and Girl A team up on Girl B. The Girl A and Girl B team up on you and you don't worry about their pleasure during that time. Then Girl B + you on Girl A.
Things start to go wrong when you try to make everyone happy all the time. Example - Girl A blowing you so you start fingering Girl B so she doesn't feel left out. In that case, don't worry about Girl B right then. Just catch up with her in a few minutes.
Once I figured this out, my threesome experiences went from disappointing to mindblowing.
[deleted] 8y ago
Thanks, man. I'm not really even stressed out about this... I figure if it goes bad, it's a funny story at the very least. I like your advice tho, thanks.
VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago
Generally, you should think about what your preferences are, and how you can apply two women to them in a way that you can't apply one.
Ex. Have them both give you head at the same time, either swapping you back and forth between them or having one tongue your stones while the other one gives you more conventional head.
If this is the first threesome for one of them or if one of them is only latently bi, put yourself at the center to start.
Blindfold one or both of them to start. It amps things up, particularly if one or both of them are subs, or is a nervous 'first-timer'.
Also, from an administrative perspective, there's a lot of moving parts, so don't do something stupid like go out for a few hours first to "set the mood". That's a great way to let one or both of them get cold feet.
[deleted] 8y ago
That last part is great advice... I was curious if I should meet them out first or have them come straight over and have a drink on my couch to start.
VasiliyZaitzev 8y ago
That second one. Get the party started. Let them have a drink, but not get sloppy. Kiss each of them, then move the ball downfield.
ETA: The downside will be that, one you've all finished, you're going to have two women in the room asking, "So....what are you thinking?" /grin
failingtheturingtest 8y ago
"Round two"
Invalidity 8y ago
The key for a successful threesome is to ensure that your plates are into each other. If the only reason why they're doing it is for you, it's most likely going to fail. If you can get them to compete with each other, it'll help you build sexual tension.
But otherwise, if they won't do anything with the other plate, the best you'll get is one opportunity at a threesome, and it'll just be you taking turns having sex with each of them.
max_peenor 8y ago
Bingo. Otherwise once they get past the double blowjob, they are just taking turns and they will get bored. You only have so many hands and dicks.
Personally, I've had a lot of success "directing them" with each other while I pillage them in kind. Give the orders.
[deleted] 8y ago
They've messed around together 1-on-1 before, so that's not an issue, haha.
Invalidity 8y ago
Best positions I've had: the girls are in 69 and you're doing one of them from the back and the other girl is licking your shaft/balls.
Other positions: One girl is riding you, and you're eating the other girl out as she hovers over your face. They may or may not be playing with each other.
Doggystyle with a girl as she is eating another girl out. Variations of eating a girl out while that girl plays with the other.
There are a lot of variations, you just have to ensure that both are covered. The stuff you see in porn like doing a girl while the other girl sits around - the odd one out isn't going to enjoy it. At the very least, you'd have to be fingering that girl.
[deleted] 8y ago
I like that first one... hadn't thought of that. Good looking out.
DadOnDabs 8y ago
Read sex god method. It has a really great guide on this. Highlights are to switch between the two, if one is less comfortable focus on her, and to get them to fuck each other two. Having both of them rely on you makes it waaay more work for you. Let them eat each other out and play with each other.
alphabachelor 8y ago
Treat them equally or risk losing one of them.
[deleted] 8y ago
Don't care about losing either... I have more plates than I can handle right now.
Metalageddon 8y ago
Do what you enjoy. If you find yourself picking a favorite then accept loss or severe comfort tests of the other one. Shouldn't really a problem I think.
Get tipsy or grab a v before hand. This will take a while.
TheSupr3m3Justic3 8y ago
Don't get caught up doing bitch shit.
Go full porn star on them, by doing epic shit like having one ride your face while the other rides your dick.
Do not waste this opportunity, lol, take your time, and spread the lust out equally, not for fear of losing one, but for balance.
GL and HF!
drqxx 8y ago
Take your time and tell them what to do. I've been LTR with the same girls since November..
no_condoments 8y ago
They can be a bit awkward getting started. I found the massage method for starting works well (i think it was talked about in the Mystery Method). One of the girls gets a four handed massage, takes off shirt, continues to escalate.