Hi guys. I have been lifting for two years now. After a bout of the flu I lost several pounds of fat. I caught myself in the mirror and decided it was time to quit monk mode. I have improved myself to the point where I now outgun 99% of my potential competitiors. However women have been less than accepting of these changes. As I am in college for engineering it proves quite difficult to meet women so I decided to try tinder. I chose a profile picture where I looked fairly shredded and posted it, I checked out the competition and began swiping.
In the end 0 matches, and I was being far from picky (anyone who was a 5 and up).

Now I could go back into monk mode for two more years until I look like mike o'hearn or something, but I don't know if I can take it, I find myself in a blood curdling rage for days at a time, this helps my lifts but otherwise feels terrible (without meaning to sound like a douche the only way I can describe my feelings is comparing them to that of a bull in the ring). What should I do, or rather what can I do to improve the situation.