Just made this new plate who gets pretty wild in bed. Looking in the mirror after our first hookup I discovered scratches all over my back and chest. I don't want to discourage this cause it kind of turned me on, but I'm working on spinning new plates and I'm not sure how to explain this.
Obviously I'm always honest about the fact that we're not exclusive, but it's one thing for a girl to know I might be sleeping with other girls and it's another for her to see the evidence all over my body. Just looking for suggestions on addressing this should it come up.
FrameWalker 10y ago
Had zero girls confront me on it. Preselection
vandaalen 10y ago
"I wrestle bears in my free time."
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AdviceToSaveYourLife 10y ago
Stop with these dumb ass jokes, they don't go over well in the real world
trpthroway123 10y ago
Never had a girl say anything negative about the evidence other girls leave around. Most don't say anything at all, even if they clearly notice.
Panties between the bed and walls? Hair that isn't theirs? Earrings, hair ties, and socks under the sheets? Scratches/hickies/friction burn they didn't give? Extra phone charger next to the bed (that's clearly not for me)?
Not a problem. They see, they know, they don't give a fuck. If anything, it helps...
Certifiedfamilylaw 10y ago
Girls like guys who fuck other girls. You are thinking about this from your perspective (if you saw scratches it would make you think negatively about the girl).
Werkzeug81 10y ago
If you haven't told other plates your exclusive I see know problem in being straight honest if they ask. "Got with a wild women the other night". She's not going to be happy to hear that but the amount of respect you get is crazy. I used to get asked by plates if I was sleeping around and I would answer in a similar way. No regrets.
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Plate is doing this on purpose to mark you.
IVIaskerade 10y ago
What's to explain? Maybe it'll inspire the others to put more effort in.
Arcturus_ 10y ago
If girl b doesn't like what girl a is doing there's always girl c.
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DarkisKnight 10y ago
Q.E.D.
ace518 10y ago
Say it wasn't you
BusterVadge 10y ago
I just don't let them scratch me. Be in control.
Borsao66 10y ago
As someone else said, pre-selection at work. Whatever you do don't be a beta fag and lie about it. If you're gonna be an Alpha, man up to it. If you're afraid of her popping smoke, then that just shows that you suffer from scarcity mentality.
VasiliyZaitzev 10y ago
Girl: "What's up with the scratches on your back?"
You: "You have competition."
brooklynisburnin 10y ago
Plates don't need explanations, more so when you're perfectly clear about being non-exclusive.
Govedo13 10y ago
This costed me a solid plate a two moths ago. I just tell the truth and let them deal with it.
GarnetLantern 10y ago
You don't.
Docbear64 10y ago
I like creating competitions , women are naturally competitive so if she sees a woman wrecked you i would use that as ammo to encourage a game of " who fucks better" ... don't have to be overt but i've known a few women who take any casual admonishments about other women as an excuse to go full whore on my dick . pretty fun .
LaRedPill 10y ago
Just play dumb "Dunno maye scratched while doing sports with the boys", if they pess you on it just change the subject, they will get the idea by themselves. IDGAF