I got cheated on in March. I found and swallowed the pill. I lift and run every day. I have a great career job right out of college.
It's been 7 months, I lift, I have hobbies, I'm doing everything I can. And I still can't get over her. I feel like I have Noone to talk to because everyone is sick of hearing it. I'm sick of thinking about it. I feel like I'm broken. I quit drinking. I quit smoking. But I still can't stop thinking about her. I've been with other women.Doesn't help. I'm tired of feeling like a pussy. I'm so sick of feeling like this.
Ashrune 11y ago
Remember, bro. Love is always there. It will just fade away after months. Or it simply just won't go away, but you'll get to the point where it won't bother you too much. It's okay if you miss her; it's natural. You know why it's natural? It's because you loved her. Stop thinking that you can't move on. Because if it is meant to be, then it will be. The only reason why you still can't forget her, is that you haven't found someone more worth remembering than her, yet. You'll find that someone soon enough bro, trust me. You give out a lot of love, I can tell. And for some women worth loving and remembering, that's all you need to give them; a lot of love. You can make it through this. You can rise up and become someone better. Someone's who's not a pussy. Well if you are a pussy, you have 9 lives to recreate that pussy-ness to manliness.
RememberingAlpha 11y ago
Thank you for this.
stickfiguresk 11y ago
Actively make an effort to be with 10 different women. Time and poon cures heart ache.
rurpe 11y ago
What is so great about a girl who cheated on you?
TheAngryLife 11y ago
Monk mode and raise yourself up to new levels of glory. If you count yourself with high SMV and game, work on other women. They don't have to seem better than her, only experience them and learn more about yourself.
You will only meet the woman who will raise all your ideas of love through bettering yourself and experiencing more women. It will only be time and experience the pain itself will also be a memory. You will be smarter, stronger, more refined and you've landed yourself an even better woman who only wants to be led by you.
edit: i left my oneitus 6 months ago it is daily very painful. meditate and continue what you're doing.
Futdashukup 11y ago
We've all been there, despite all the PUA tough guy bullshit some guys spout. Its been 10 years, but I still remember Charlotte who was a fucking beautiful fox . . .who totally broke my heart. Its all part of being young. You feel things more intensely. The only answer is to find a girl who looks exactly like . . joke. Just keep going forward.
RememberingAlpha 11y ago
Thanks man. I appreciate it