Yeah yeah I know, only text to make dates; Which this is sort of about. Sorry, still starting off here.
Just been teasing this girl for a little bit, she tries to put up a hard front but she loves the teasing and she's into me.
She's been writing back straight away to my texts and I've been waiting 2+ hrs each time.
We plan to meet up tomorrow for a drink and a swim & a possible massage/fuck. I've been keeping my texts short and she's been sending me pics of watches, selfies, things she's doing during the day, blah blah.
The 2nd last msg was what she was doing tomorrow: 9am - blah blah blah breakfast 10am - blah blah blah physio 11am - getting nails done blah blah And then I am completely free after that
/// 2+ hrs ///
Me: Thanks for sending your super detailed schedule for tomorrow haha Call me when you're ready.
/// 10 seconds ///
Her: You're welcome Have a good night
Now she usually works up to a half an hour past when she sent the last msg and takes another 30 mins to get home...
Butthurt? or am I looking into this too much?
[deleted] 11y ago
Women want a man who takes charge and tells them what the date is going to be. You are running full speed into the beta orbiter zone if she is telling you about her classes via text.
"what day are you free" and "Meet at x at 8pm" should be the only texts that you are sending
JetteAuLoinTRP 11y ago
You played to much push, I'd say. It's your job to set things up, and hers to accept. You should have set the date, right there : "Okay, meet me at place at time, where a nice dress".
I don't really see how you can catch that up, though. Something among the lines of "Sure hope we will spend a good night. Meet me at place at time", so you jump back on what she says as if it was no big deal and go back to settling the date.
DiggerClam 11y ago
Thanks man, that worked a treat.
[deleted] 11y ago
I get the angle you're trying to play. First, cut out "haha" from your texting vocabulary. Second, be a bit less wordy. A simple "TMI" would get the job done. The text you send should focus primarily on the date. "TMI. I'm picking you up at 5," or something of the like.
DiggerClam 11y ago
Thanks guys. Noted.