I've noticed most attractive women don't stay single for long. The reason is because guys are willing to jump into an LTR without properly vetting the woman or even getting to know them.
Now morality aside, if I were to simply agree to an LTR with a girl and treat her as a plate, can this be done? I'm imagining either it would be epic dread game or she'll eventually get fed up and break up with me. Women want status among their group and having a bf is a sign of social value for them. I can tell a girl I'm only looking for fun but eventually if she's hot enough, some other guy will come and offer up an LTR and her friends WILL judge her for not being able to lock down a boyfriend.
If she's not in my social circle, would there be any other downsides to this? Would it even work? The only thing I'm thinking is I may be more susceptible to catching oneitis but if I stay conscious of that I should be fine.
I'm thinking about the really desired women who are used to being in LTRs.
MeatCurtainRod 11y ago
This is showing a lack of your personal integrity. You need to be honest about your intentions. She will be a lot more open to things if you are a man of integrity. If not, move on.
[deleted] 11y ago
It not an integrity issue if OP doesn't actually lie and defies the define the relationship conversation
ToshiroOzuwara 11y ago
So you want all of the girls to yourself, and you will lie to them to accomplish it?
prodigy2throw 11y ago
Basically
blacwidonsfw 11y ago
Do it man. I did and learned that it wasn't as great as it sounds. Its just a bunch of drama cause girls Will sense you got others and drop you and it will hurt your reputation as well. Better to fuck for a bit, drop the plate when it gets serious and then dip back in from time to time.
You have to play the long game, plant some seeds, ignore for a while, and see if it grows. You are just going to burn the whole farm and nothing will be left to grow.
I just dropped a high quality plate because the Shit tests were too much hassle as she wanted a commitment and I just want to workout and fuck.
There truly is a lifecycle for plates and the longest I've been able to stretch it is about 6 months before they start asking "what are we", "could you ever see me as your girlfriend", "I know I want only you, how do you feel?" it's the same Shit with every girl. AWALT. If you want a ltr then choose the best plate and go for it, but if you try to juggle a bunch of ltrs you are going to be way more stresmitrying to cover your tracks. For example having to constantly clean condoms from your trash, make up lies as to where you are, explain why your tagged in a pic on Facebook, where you are going for 3 days, how come you don't have time blah blah blah. Dude not worth it. Having temporary plates (ALL plates are temporary either ending in a ltr or dropping) and switching them out when they fall is way way less effort than snowballing lies. Just be upfront and most girls will be down to be plates for a few months because they assume they can change your mind