Hi guys,
I swallowed TRP a few weeks ago and am starting to get to grips with this new, exciting way of life.
I've recently decided I am bisexual/bicurious, and wanted to know whether telling people this would increase or decrease my SMV.
To clarify, I strongly prefer women to men, but just find some guys attractive. I'd let people know this when telling them. Would the promiscuity of being bi increase my SMV, or do just the opposite (i.e. people put you in the same group as 'gay' and you have no SMV with females at all?)
Thanks in advance
EDIT: Feminist wording

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bradyo2 12y ago
Nice answer thanks. I think you hit the nail on the head when you said it's a fetish. I think it makes more sense to see it that way. I'll probably keep it to myself then.
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Don't be ashamed of it, it's still part of who you are, accept it and move on. The only person who needs to love every part of you is yourself, the rest only really deserve bits and pieces anyway.
Well that was girly as fuck, but seriously, you're ok.
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I don't know. Why don't you do some experiments to find out? Report back, I'm curious (to know, that is.)
Btw, saying 'I decided to identify as [alternative sexual identiry]' makes you sound like an edgy high-school student, and the idea of 'identifying as' something doesn't go over well here, I think because it comes off as inauthentic. Either you are bi or you are not. Why won't you come in here saying "Hi guys, I'm bi!" instead of this bitchmade "I recently decided to identify as..."
It just sounds silly, that's all.
Best of luck to you; tell us about what you find re: women's perceptions of bisexuality. It's a subject that hasn't been explored much within the redpill paradigm.
bradyo2 12y ago
Thanks, I think I will.
And yeah, I was aware of that when writing it, I think I'll edit. I'm a bit hesitant to say 'I am bi' just yet as I've only really 'officially' decided in the past week, despite having it on my mind for a lot longer.
TheRealLandingWood 12y ago
I find guys attractive too sometimes. But the question is.. would you fuck them?
bradyo2 12y ago
Basically, no. But saying that, I would get off with them. Maybe Bicurious would have been better in the title. Anyway, question still stands though, would it increase or decrease my SMV?
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Only Bill Kaulitz
TheRealLandingWood 12y ago
You're not bi if you wouldn't fuck them
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Have you seen Bill Kaulitz?
BruceIsTheBatman 12y ago
I think women in general like men who act straight and manly despite being whatever orientation. Instead of looking at yourself and asking "Am I really comfortable with being bisexual?" (sounds like a sissy question), you could just stop inhibiting yourself and do what you want. Don't get sensitive or political about it. No gayaccent.
Yeah, a lot of people are going to put you in the same group as gay, that's just society. There's a shit ton of girls and guys that don't care, but I hope you don't mind hipsters.
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bradyo2 12y ago
Haha short and sweet.
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If I knew a guy was bi, I'd probably be more into him. It would increase the possibilities of sharing, and talking about our attractions to men would be exciting.
vandaalen 12y ago
There sure are a lot of girls who like the idea of a threesome with two men plus i know a couple of them (would) like to watch men going at it. Not really anal sex, but blowing each other and stuff. Makes them very curious.
So this is maybe good for some one night stands but i don't see how that is going to affect SMV.
mrpoopistan 12y ago
It's going to be highly conditioned on your social circle.
If it's an accepting and playful social circle, the kind where you could discuss shabari and MMF sex, then you will see benefits.
If it's a social circle full of guys who suffer from repressed homophobia, you'd experience a massive drop in SMV.
complete_asshole_ 12y ago
If you're behaving bisexual to attract women then it's just the equivalent of being a prison bitch. If you're actually bisexual then who gives a fuck about the women it would lower your SMV with since you've already doubled market potential.
bradyo2 12y ago
Good point. In what way is it the equivalent to being a prison bitch?
complete_asshole_ 12y ago
You allow yourself to be used in hope of future benefits. (prison=protection / real life=sex with girl)
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You decided to identify?
You don't understand what SMV is
bradyo2 12y ago
I wasn't claiming to be an expert
Sorry, I'll use a different word meaning exactly the same thing next time.