Spot the Sigma

I thought I'd make a post about the infamous mysterious Sigma man, for they are a very real variation on the theme and Chad hates them and most Alpha's are at the very least 'challenged' by them.

Why? Becoz they break ALL the 'rules' yet are almost running the show, and nobody has a clue how they're doing it. (and here's the funny part, if you were to ask the sigma, he'd probably have trouble explaining unless it were to a RP minded man, and even then, he might not be able to explain it at all, becoz ... it's complicated, he's complicated, and that's the 'essence' of his 'sigmaness'

IMHO Bill Jobs was very sigma

Every sigma I know is a 'natural sigma', by that I mean that they didn't try to be anything, they were just being themselves and for many reasons, but the most common is that they were smart and bullied at school so they introverted a bit to survive and being the kid who didn't really fit in anywhere, they almost became loners, usually only having a few close friends, which in high school means maybe 10-20 people but IRL was often one or two ...

Think 'smart nerdy Bill and Ted stoners' and you've got the beginning's of a sigma, and if one of these types of guys is able to have good frame and game, becoz they have HAD TO learn how to deal with people fucking with them, and they are enigmatic, and chicks love 'puzzling mysterious guys', and as they grow older can also come across as slightly aloof, which is never a bad thing with girls vying for attention .. and they can get everyone else's BUT they can't get yours! If you can pull that off with conviction in the right places you'll have women approaching you all the time, and thats a real ego/confidence boost too!

They're also hard to get to know too well unless they let you, and the older they get, the more this is, BUT IF they like you they can make you feel like their best mate in minutes and you'll suddenly be really enjoying their company, it's 'charisma" that comes from their innate self confidence,

Which comes from when they were much younger and which if they didn't have, they would've been crushed by those bullies, and as this behavior has been learned from the schoolyard it's very strong, i.e good luck trying to break a strong Sigma's frame!

Sigma's SMV is increased massively by the skill they often learned while avoiding the bullies at school, from playing an instrument to taking an interest cars and bikes or rock climbing or some other activity they can do alone, these days computers etc are something a sigma naturally gets into but they get bored easily so they do many things, and by the time they're 21-22 they've often done more than many people will do i their lives!

They often love sports like climbing and half the time on American Ninja Warrior it's the 'climbers' who smoke the courses coz they're super fit and strong ... and look at a middleweight MMA fighter of 72-75kgs and if they're over 5'10" odds on they're kinda lean

Here's the part I love as their 'solitary suffering and studying' paid off, and it's from just being themselves when they leave school and go off into RL which is where suddenly they find all this knowledge they have acquired alone (what the kids back at school called 'bizarre/stupid' etc shit) is now making their lives rock, and people in general tend to love a happy sigma,

The dude from Beverly Hills Pawn, Yoshi is classic Sigma, what he is in front of the camera isn't 'acting', that's how he's been since his 20's, I'd bet on it!

Here's another one, this guy was a very successful musician back in the early 80's and he's as understand of RP knowledge as you can tell from the words, but he faded away after making his millions and now just keeps himself cruising doing what he loves

Elvis Costello is another perfect example of a Sigma, and there's a couple of autobiographic film on him where he talks about his childhood through making 'popular music' and up until quite recently, it's a great watch

In fact there are a LOT of 'sigma' musos in the industry

Anyway, back to this guys Joe Jackson, in this first song he's talking about a conversation with his gf and the chorus goes (from "him" referring to his gf''s plea's "you're All the same, you're all the same"

I guess this was the first time I heard a person singing about AWALT but i didn't quite realize it straight away

please guys, enjoy the first song and realize that this 'type' of guy has been around forever, and women love them becoz they're "fascinating" ... chicks, especially the hot ones with lots of orbiters think they've got all guys sussed out and know how to make them do what 'they want', but a sigma won't play, he's already had enough of such bullshit and this only makes the girls more attracted, plus get a name for yourself as a good fuck and you'll have them literally knocking on your door, I know I did/do (ALL women, esp young, girls tell their friends about their sex lives)

Sigma's are naturals which isn't always a good thing, they will assure you and some 'game' is conscious but Sigma's being 'naturals' have no choice but to deal with it, and as they can be either an 'alpha sigma' or a 'beta sigma' or a combination of both, it's the 'alpha sigmas' I'm mainly referring to here

and for myself it was songs like this one and things I heard here and there that helped me 'build my frame and game' back in the 80's when there was nothing even close to TRP, no internet, just RL and we Sigmas are often alone, we accept that's just how it is, not from women pfffft! strong sigmas have all the women they want, but as they get bored LTR's often don't work for long and they end up alone by choice, that is, they usually don't want kids and LTR's are rerstrictive on a sigma's usually dynamic lifestyle, few girls can make the grade and keep up

But these days with sexual standards allowing 'fuck buddies' and NBD ONS's (not that they really ever were a big deal, but these days .. idk how to explain) but fuck it's cool, and there are some great women coming on the market every day, and I personally love it, but if you don't love how you're life's going, you need to work on that, becoz any happy sigma is a strong sigma and they'll all tell you "it's up to you bro, I can only offer what I know"

bros, may I introduce to you all

Joe Jackson

The Joe Jackson Band - It's Different For Girls - YouTube Video for youtube joe jacksonâ–¶ 4:16 - private www.youtube.com/watch?v=nNzzK1dUtCI

Joe Jackson-Is she really going out with him ? - YouTube - private Video for youtube joe jacksonâ–¶ 3:44 - private www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y5BaurXMmMU

Everything gives you cancer https://www.google.com.au/search?q=youtube+joe+jacson&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8&gws_rd=cr&ei=Gr97VbD1IMmE8gWIzYDwCQ#q=youtube+joe+jackson+everything+gives+you+cancer

This is is bald and unattractive but he can pull mucho HB9+ IF he wants, I'd bet my balls on it

He's a British lad!

edit: Lot's a small errots as gf came over before just as I posted it to go to go for drinks and dinner and I couldn't edit and format this until now, and it was definitely more than a bit unclear.

N.B I realize this post is unusual but so are sigmas, and any alphas out there will find they are there equals in PU HB's, and therefore 'competition' BUT if you approach them the right way, they'll turn into an ultimate wingman who will be handing off the girls he's not talking to to you! Make the most of it

These guys are often called 'dark triads' but IMHO that's a mistake, whilst a sigma may be 'partly dark' calling them 'DT' is a mistake and a misnomer for a guy who's sigma, not DT

e.g I rode a motorbike and the girls loved it, and I knew I looked badass in my leathers and boots and full face helmet, but that's not why I rode, I rode becoz I love to ride motorcycles and have since I was 10yo

still worked to raise my SMV big time and keep my body in shape, riding a bike is hard work when you're (I'm) having fun!