Hello guys,

tl;dr : a girl I k-closed yesterday (after a failed 1st attempt to meet) and set up a date for tonight just called it off. Need analyse of the situation to progress.

The set up

I was supposed to meet that Tinder chick thursday night. She basically didn't show up, and kept me running about her friend that just broke up and all. At the end of the night, I decided, aside from what she could say (text and calls kept coming, saying how sorry she was) that I had been played along. Didn't loose my evening though, as I took some book to read, had a drink and met some friends, but was still pissed of at her, and told her that I though she was just some girl having fun at my depends.

As she wouldn't let go, I told her I was throwing a party at my place the night after, and that she could come if she really wanted to meet me. I wasn't moving my ass anymore for that chick, yet let the door open (If a chick wants to see you, she'll make room for you).

I was very cold and assertive in my texts. Told her where and when to come, told her to call me when she'd be at the subway station next to my place, so I wouldn't leave my house for nothing. She called me, saying she was there. So I got dressed up, and got to the station, sure enough she wasn't going to be there, and just considering that as going for a walk.

The date

To my surprise, she was there. And god was she hot. Sexy as fuck, loved it.

So I took her to my place. I felt she was somehow incomfortable. Served her some wine, that she didn't touch. She started the night texting a lot, saying she was texting her mom. I pointed out that it was respectful either, she said I was right, finished her text, put it away and... Just felt uncomfortable. I asked her what was wrong.

"I think you're still mad at me"

"If I still were mad at you, what would you do ?"

"I don't know, there's nothing to do..."

"Oh, you know there's always something to do" smirk

Manage to stare into her eyes with an amused smile. 30 seconds passed, until she turned her eyes down, and I said :

"You could stand up, to begin with"

"Stand up ? Why ?"

"So I can see you"

"You didn't see me ?"

"Not enough"

She stood up, saying she was a small girl. I told her to take her vest away, which she did. I then stood up, and slowly approached. Took her hand, and make her turn around like a dance move so I could watch her all around. I said something among the line of "It's not you that's small, it's me that's tall", or some shit like that, while I put her hair behind her ear. I left my hand here, playing with her hair, then passed it in her neck and approached, until I kissed her. She gave the kiss back. We made out a few second, then I lifted her, locking my arms just under her ass, with a suprised/amused look on her face. Told her to kiss me while I took her to my room. Throwed her on the bed, while we made out.

LMR ?

She told me we didn't have time, that she had to leave soon. Earlier in the evening she told me she was going to belgium for the night with her friends. It was probably an escape door she created herself, and I took the "I have to leave soon" as a LMR. I asked her :

"What plans do you have tomorrow ?"

"Nothing..."

"Well now you do, you're coming to my place"

"No, it's your turn to come to mine"

To which I agreed. We made out some more, as I escalated as I could, bitting her ears, neck and tits. Yet she kept looking at her watch. I tried taking it off, but she told me she couldn't, she really had to go. I dressed back up, (had my shirt fall off), let her do the same, then approached behind her while she was finishing to prepare in front off my room's mirror. Turned her around, kissed her again, slammed her against the wall. "Am I not heavy ?" "I could do you all night like this". Smiled. Then letted her go.

Got her back to my door, as she restarted texting (like.. a lot). Took her phone from her hands and throwed it into her bag, as I think she could have waited not to be with me anymore to finish that texting. Stood in front of her before leaving, telling her to say goodbye. She tried to tell me good bye, told her that wasn't enough. She kissed me, and I let her go.

The morning after - setting up next date

She crossed my friend while going out of my building, so my party just started as she left. Didn't text her and gave no news until this morning. Sent her :

"Should I bring wine, tonight ? I should be able to show around 20:00"

"I thought you had given up, since you didn't send me news yesterday. So iI can't today. I'm sorry"

What? I answered :

"Both you and I had a party yesterday, not like we had time to chat, did we ? We set a date for tonight, so I think the good thing to do is for you to cancel you plans and honor your word ;)"

She read it. Hasn't replied yet. I'm already planning something else for tonight, but I'm pretty pissed right now. It's not that much that I dont' get to see her tonight or what, it's just... I can't manage to spot where I did something wrong. I like to analyse my failure to progress, but on this one, it's pretty hard.

Questions

Obviously, letting her see me while she got me waiting 2 hours can be seen as a mistake, but I've managed this one weel as I got her to move for me, and wouldn't have moved an inch to get to her. But the second part ?

So I don't know if I failed the LMR management, or if I escalated too quickly and scared her off. Any advice or comment wanted.

Links to LMR management would be helpfull too.

Details : 6.2', lifting, 7/10, good job, got 4 plates spinning, focusing on improving myself and my situation, working on my inner game mainly, and on sexual strategy, too.

Thanks all.