I'm really frustrated right now. Tonight I went out and met a cute woman. She had a cunty whale-friend with an attidude. She had an attitude because she gets no attention, cause she looks like Andy Reid. I met them when they were on the way home and talked them into coming to a club with me. While waiting in line, the whale persuaded my girl to ditch me and go back home. I could tell she would've rather stayed with me. I asked for her number, and she was reluctant. She said she had a boyfriend. I pulled some bs and said "me too", blah blah, and eventually she brought up the subject of french kissing. At this point, I tried to isolate her from the whale-woman (who at this point was holding her hand), who promptly said "Let's go", dragged her away, and killed my opportunity.
I was sure to make the whale feel comfortable and not excluded during the experience, but she still managed to fuck me over. Do you have any tips on how to deal with this in the future? Is there a way to prevent it?
jtisch 11y ago
food.
_whistler 11y ago
Honestly, I probably would've just made a final Fuck It attempt, let my inner asshole blaze out for a sec. What comes to mind here is:
Okay, I'm gonna go [do something]. Here's my phone number though, in case you want to give me a shout when your pet hambeast over there isn't pulling the leash so hard. Say it with an asshole grin and walk away. You may never hear from her again, but you've definitely left an impression.
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jobs33ker 11y ago
What's a DUFF?
randarrow 11y ago
I always thought this was what wing-men were for. To distract the woman's friends so you can talk to her one on one without them manipulating her or toying with you. Even if they aren't consciously interfering, they don't have to say much to control her attention.
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jbonte 11y ago
gotta be a class act wing man if you expect it in return.
648262 11y ago
Yes, but sometimes it can be expected. If you're the wing, and the girl does not want to go anywhere without the whale, then you as a wing will have to somehow "throw yourself on the grenade", and "take one for the team".
randarrow 11y ago
Who said anything about taking them home :) Just distract them for a little while so that contact info can be swapped. I liked the 'Food' response the other poster gave.
Exactly_what_I_think 11y ago
Redirect or jump on a grenade. It's all about fast thinking as a wing man.