I've got my Wednesday night plate coming around tonight who absolutely loves me being dominating as her last 8yr LTR was a complete pushover.
I didn't see her last week as she was sick and the week before I didn't blow during sex (I could tell she felt pretty concerned about it) and we set up a new date for this week.
I usually wouldn't text other than for logistics but she started playing and I want to start some fire before she came around tonight; it probably blew up in my face but just wondering if I should try anything after this happened yesterday:
Tuesday: 11:21am Her: You need to send me a reminder of how handsome you are. Ill accept a selfie ;)
1:38pm Her: Going to torture me and not send me one?
2:25pm Me: 1. We both know that you believe torture=reward &
- Sweeten the deal with your own sexfie first
2:32pm Her: 1. Agreed
- Noway! I asked first!
2:37pm Me: 2. You can ask all you want sweetcheeks, but I'm telling you. Go into the bathroom & send me a shot of that sexy ass you minx
2:39pm Her: Angry 'Devil' Emoticon
2:53pm Her: I'll send you one tonight. But you own me one back.
3:01pm Me: I'm a man of my word and you know what I send will leave you weak at the knees but you will send me one of your ass while at work. Today.
RADIO SILENCE for 18hrs (9am Wed now)
I think keeping radio silence until tonight is fine but is there anything else which I should be thinking about (other than only texting for logistics)?
Cheers
red-tinted 11y ago
You shouldn't have bothered messaging her the last time.
Cut out the play names like 'sweet cheeks' and the compliments like telling her she has a sexy ass. She'll know you like her ass when you have your face between her cheeks so don't validate her until then. Validation is the enemy when you're just having casual sex with a girl.
DiggerClam 11y ago
Agreed. I won't even bring it up when she comes round tonight.
Luckyluke23 11y ago
I wouldn't had sent that... i would have sent nothing, keep her guessing.
i wouldn't have said sweet checks either. just leave it out and down say it. your line is still effective without i think
DiggerClam 11y ago
Agreed; keeping her guessing is exactly how I should have played it.
ToshiroOzuwara 11y ago
This is pretty lame.
[deleted] 11y ago
Punish her for not doing as she was told. That's what I would do!
Bend her over and slap her ass and tell her what she did wrong. Make her say what she did wrong, then slap her ass again. Then ask her if she's going to do it again. I think you can take it from here. I do this to my GF all the time she loves it...
Also your messages were a bit cheesy, it makes you sound like a try-hard
DiggerClam 11y ago
Msgs were shit, yes. My game is dead at the moment. The spanking move is decent. Punishment when she comes over tonight. Cheers for the reply.
TattedGuyser 11y ago
With responses like those, we can tell... also if she's a steady plate wtf does she want a selfie for? This sounds like a convo of someone who you met off Tinder and she wants to reassure your not actually fugly.
DiggerClam 11y ago
She's just playing with having the week off. She's a plate of 2 months.