Pretty simple, game is my weakest element right now (and I know it's the most important). Stopping beta behaviour and lifting has raised my SMV passively, and I'm doing miles better than I was, but the process of seeing a girl I like to getting her on a date, and then her into bed, I'm still not confident about. Some resources on this would be great.
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needathrowawayplease 11y ago
The only way is to try it.
Step 1: Go talk to girls at a bar or coffeeshop or on the street or wherever. There are 1000 different ways you could "approach", "open", etc. But really it doesn't matter how you do it so long as you go out there and try it.
Step 2: Have lighthearted conversations with women and strangers where you can tell they are responding with comfortable / happy body language.
Step 3: Actually say something like "hey you seem pretty cool, do you wanna grab a drink with me next week?" or "hey do you wanna go out some time? let me get your facebook".
Step 4: Make plans with the person.
Step 5: Go out with the person 1 on 1. Just have fun.
Step 6: Somehow or another kiss her. 1000 different ways to get from platonic feeling date to kissing her, but it doesn't really matter which approach you take as long as you are trying. I have done a whole "kino escalation" type dealio over the course of 15 minutes to get to the kiss. I have also just said "you're cute, can I kiss you?" to a girl I met 5 minutes before. It really doesn't matter as long as you find your balls and go for it. You'll win some and lose some.
Step 7: Going from kissing to sex isn't as hard as going from hanging out to kissing IMO. But once again you could do anything from trying to slowly escalate physically to straight up asking her if she's interested in having sex.
Resources: Experiment. Go out and do it. Try it. If you skip the books and Reddit posts and just start pulling the trigger in real life you'll quickly find that the real obstacle isn't knowing how to navigate this successfully, it's just getting over your own fear every step of the way.
You just have to come to terms with the fact that shooting the basket means you're going to miss some shots and be OK with that. And learn to take shots when you're afraid.
RidleySmith 11y ago
Goodlookingloser.com does a great course on approach anxiety
RemyPrice 11y ago
The best resource to learn game is by fucking shit up.
Go fuck shit up. Learn what worked. Tweak what didn't.
Repeat.
Glacia 11y ago
RSD videos are great motivation and theory source, but the only thing that will help you is practice.
Brian_Official 11y ago
Game is the only way to learn it.